We are trying to have a baby and I think he gets nervous about performing and can't seem to come lately. I know I am ovulating today so how can I ensure he will definitely go all the way? He does 8 out of 10 times and it's always during the wrong time of the month. I am getting very frustrated and want it to happen tonight.
2007-02-19 16:54:10 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
Try not to talk about you ovulation and talk more about how great he is! Stroking his ego can also help with the stroking. Try to just have a great and relaxing evening together. Don't concentrate so hard on the mechanics and just enjoy yourself. Making the baby is the fun part. Men do have problems when you pressure them to climax, so don't pressure him. Make love and have fun!!
2007-02-19 20:19:26 · answer #1 · answered by jennisthedude 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, don't think about baby making, think about ravishing that charming, lovely, hunk of a man you married. (Not that I've ever met him, but I'm sure that's how you see him). Dress up, sexy tunes, good sheets, stripe him down, do a dance, lots of foreplay and talk dirty. Boss him around a bit.
A no fail trick - one glass of warm water, one glass of cold water beside you.. (lay down some towels) and blow his mind from oral sex first... if anything other then YOU and YOU and YOU is still on his mind, well he just might have to see a professional about that.
My guy gets performance issues when he's stressed out as well, I've got it down to one phrase "shut up and F*#@ me!" sorry for the profanity.
2007-02-20 01:44:04 · answer #2 · answered by Noota Oolah 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not to be graphic, but lots of oral on him and maybe a porn. This would almost guarantee him to go all of the way. If porn isn't what you two are into...I would just say set the mood with candles with some nice scents and please him orally first. Again, sorry if I'm graphic, but I don't know any other way to answer this type of question! : )
2007-02-20 01:42:10 · answer #3 · answered by cutesy76 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'd say try not to think about making a baby ! more you think about that the harder its gonna be! just try to make some good foreplay and do not try to hard! Good Luck:)
2007-02-20 01:10:55 · answer #4 · answered by Tiffany 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋