Most of my friends are having kids, and kind of ignoring me, because they tell me I shouldn't have kids because an event that happened in my life. But, I'm a very determined girl, and I do want I'm told not too.
2007-02-19 16:41:57 · 10 answers · asked by amazon 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
That's Insane!! You do what you are told not to? Just because some people told you not to? That's nuts!! @8-[
2007-02-19 16:46:19 · answer #1 · answered by Dovey 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybe they are not talking to you because they are avoiding what could to them be peer pressure! Ex if you drink and smoke and do things they are no longer interested in then that could be why!! Trust me I have to avoid a few friends because they smoke around my kids when Im with them and some ask me to go out and party and I do not want to so I just try to avoid them!
Whatever happened in the past is the past!! Just make sure you take damn good care of your kids and dont let anything bad happen to them!! (that you can control of course). I dont know the event but I guess make sure it wont happen again and get help if you need it before having kids! Best of Luck!
2007-02-19 16:49:35 · answer #2 · answered by Tiffany 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
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2016-10-16 01:49:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No one can tell you what you can or can't do. If you want to have children that is entirely up to you. If there was an event in your life that was traumatic go and have some counselling and show them that you are strong enough to work through your problems. Other than that i would tell your friends to go to hell cause with friends like that who needs enemies. Friends are meant to be supportive not judgemental.
2007-02-19 16:48:24 · answer #4 · answered by jimmy_chick78 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds crazy. You are free to have kids. You just need to make sure you are ready to take sacrifice a lot for them, I mean A LOT. this is very serious business. If you are willing to care for protect and watch over your kids for the rest of your life, go for it. If you are just trying to prove to your friends that you can put one out and then who knows, think twice!
2007-02-19 16:49:58 · answer #5 · answered by The Owl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's your decision how you want you life to unfold and if having kids is not in your plans the don't let someones opinion of what they "think you should do" change what you really believe is best for you!
2007-02-19 16:46:06 · answer #6 · answered by LSD 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stick to your guns if you dont want children you shouldnt have them. Find new friends one where you have something in common with that dont have kids.
2007-02-19 16:50:19 · answer #7 · answered by firetdriver_99 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you want kids, then have them, if you dont then that ok as well
you need to do what is right for you. and not care what other
think. it is your life .
2007-02-19 16:46:54 · answer #8 · answered by luckystar 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Friends are not always the most important thing.
Live your life!
2007-02-19 16:55:34 · answer #9 · answered by DollsTasteGood.. 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
why not the kids are the happiness in life so if like them , just go for it ,with your husband though
2007-02-19 16:46:04 · answer #10 · answered by live4hoping 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋