I am very much a loner. But to my dismay people are attracted to me. They look to me to be there leader, they want me to listen to there problems, they rely on me, and I don't know why. I just want humans to leave me alone.
Why do you think this is? Is it a bad thing? Can I escape it?
2007-02-19 16:29:09 · 9 answers · asked by moonkissedwarrior 2 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Sorry guys but I will not pretend I am dumb, its not in my nature to submit to them.
2007-02-19 16:39:14 · update #1
I am more interested in why you just want humans to leave you alone......Your aloofness probably is what attracts people to you.
2007-02-23 14:24:04 · answer #1 · answered by missellie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm no professional, but it sounds like you have a strong sense of self, and high self-esteem, and people without those things are naturally drawn to you! Can you escape it? Not likely. You seem to be head-strong and level headed and not likely to change your behavior to please or displease anyone else.
Call it a curse if you want to, but people around you just want to know, "how do you do it?!!!"
Try to take it as a compliment if you can. I'm sure that's how they mean it. =)
2007-02-20 00:39:51 · answer #2 · answered by OneRedCent 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they dont see you as a loner they see you as a strong person. because you do what you do alone they think that is a sign of strength and wisdom. like ghandi who did everything on his own and he became a great leader. they look up to you. seek your council because they feel that your stronger than each of them individualy and wiser too. you could start a new religion. . . thats how buddhism got started.
2007-02-20 00:33:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are probably mature and sensible. you can keep secrets cause you don't have anyone to tell them to.
I get this too. pretend like you are dumb.
2007-02-20 00:34:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just tell them that you are only looking out for yourself. That you are on meds. They will leave you alone.
2007-02-20 00:31:54 · answer #5 · answered by 1K 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Join a nunnary,, or slash ya wrists
2007-02-20 00:31:55 · answer #6 · answered by sorneez 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
To each their own.
2007-02-20 00:31:37 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
may be u
2007-02-20 00:31:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop being a good listener.
2007-02-20 00:32:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋