The strange thing is that he chats with the house girl but doesnt do that with me anymore. i havent done anything to him and he seems okey with other people, the kid and his sister.Please help me answer this question, is it that he doesnt love me anymore? and what should i do?
2007-02-19 16:28:52 · 8 answers · asked by Eve A 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Not to say this is what's happening to you, but when my husband got like that I found out he was having an affair. His thoughts are obviously with someone else or somewhere else.
2007-02-19 16:36:54 · answer #1 · answered by Red Goddess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he doesn't want to talk to you, get another person to be the go-between. A mutual friend, sister, brother, etc. who knows both of you well and has a good rapport with him. This person's task is to find out all about his problem and relate it to you.
Most likely, he has a big problem he has to deal with. It may not have anything to do with you, although I would not rule out a relationship with another woman. In which case, he may be feeling very guilty towards you - which is why he is distancing himself from you.
2007-02-20 04:29:16 · answer #2 · answered by nira 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The house girl?...who is this.....he may be doing more with the house girl than just chatting....are the 2 of you still sleeping together.....do he and the house girl get missing.....I think the 2 of you need to have a talk.
2007-02-20 00:32:58 · answer #3 · answered by butt_fuzz2007 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he feels he cannot talk to you. Tell him how you are feeling and be honest with him. Ask him why he does not feel he can talk to you. He may be having an affair with the house girl or another woman for that matter. Seek counseling and help for you and for this marriage. I hope things get better for you and for your marriage soon. He may love you but maybe he just does not know how to talk to you.
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2007-02-20 00:35:08 · answer #4 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Communication is always key but if that doesn't work, try counseling. There must be a reason why he is distant. What happened two months ago that made him turn away from communicating with you? You need to self analyze before you move forward.
2007-02-20 00:34:49 · answer #5 · answered by wiseone 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't say that he still loves you but may take you for granted perhaps their are things in your marriage that need to be smoothed out you have to approach him and sometimes having a yelling match is the only way to get to the bottom of things
2007-02-20 00:31:56 · answer #6 · answered by ♥queen b♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u won't know unless u talk to him and find out, sounds like an unresolved problem here, that he is mad about. but if he is treating others OK but not u, i would find out why. u need to find out what is going on, i would be little worried about the house girl, as sometimes when a man is cheating, he is disconnecting from the wife, and does tend to be quiet and not have much to say to his wife.
2007-02-20 08:40:10 · answer #7 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have you tried asking him if anything's bothering him? you have to ask him that in a non-confrontational manner....you'll never know until you ask.
2007-02-20 00:32:57 · answer #8 · answered by Bubuchachum 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋