is she using me or what?

Question

i play basketball and i have a friend in the grade ahead of me that also play's but we became friends during basketball season well we were friends before but not really good friends and now that we hang out at practice we tell eachother stuff and i don know what will happen after basketball season do u think we will still be friends and i dont go over to her house and stuff we only hang out at school

Answer 1

Well then, Hang on at Your End of Things. You can't change someone or make them do what you want for very long. Those make up life's little lessons. It would just prove that you are a better friend than she is. No joke. Why don't you Invite her toYour House? @8-)

Answer 2

Most relationships that happen in High School rarely continue outside of graduation. Very rarely do you find that lifelong friend that you will know throughout your adult years. It's basically a self decision. If you feel as if you guys could be friends and literally become close outside of school and after school, then thats great. My advice is if you feel this is a team mate sports thing and it's not going any further than school, then limit the info you tell because secrets are something you definitly don't want to worry about coming back to bite you in the bootie later on. Good Luck

Answer 3

I think she's just being friendly. If you're not hanging out in a social setting after school, I'd say she's probably only looking for some conversation while on the court.

Answer 4

Just chill out a little bit. Let things go wherever thay may go. even if nothing serious happens at least you may have gained a friend. That is better than nothing in the long run.

Answer 5

Been there done that. Be yourself, but be selective what you say to her and others until you see how things go. I have been too trusting to others I thought were real friends to find out different. Girls are rough. They are your friends until it benefits thems. BE YOURSELF, and not too much information. Have fun girlfriend!