my gf and i have been together for almost 7 months, we are very much inlove... i know she loves me more than anything in this world, she treats me so good, i believe her in my mind, but i am hesitant with my heart!!! please give me some advice! thanks jess
2007-02-19 15:36:22 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Ask her where she's been, not who she's been with.
Believe everything she says, why would she lie? If she DIDN'T WANT TO BE WITH YOU, SHE WOULDN'T BE!
REMEMBER THAT AT ALL TIME!
2007-02-19 15:58:23 · answer #1 · answered by AdamKadmon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The truth is that there's really no way to "make " youself trust your girlfriend. And the truth is that the lack of trust you feel toward your girlfriend is really just a reflection of your own insecurities. It's understandable that you don't want to get hurt, but in order to trust your girlfriend you have to trust yourself. You have to know that you're good enough, and that if it doesn't work out, it wasn't because of you, it just wasn't the right fit. If she cheats, she cheats... but that's a reflection of her character not yours. And if you got into the relationship knowing that she might be the type to cheat, then you probably should re-evaluate that decision.
2007-02-19 15:58:15 · answer #2 · answered by mcgeemcmickle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she did nothing rong then u have no reason not to trust her so just trust her. if she did some thing rong will then u could just for give her if she really cares about u as much as u say and if she really treats u so good then what really is the problem it sounds like a great relationship.
i hope i atlest helped u abit.
2007-02-19 15:57:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no advice, and you should know that.
How you feel and how she feels will not change with your trust. Let proofs remain with the theorems, not as a measure of yours or hers emotions.
We all feel, but what we do with those feelings define us. You say you love her, I thought trust came with love.
2007-02-19 17:05:21 · answer #4 · answered by J. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, I'm straight but I'm going to say right now that gays totally rock! =0) As for your girlfriend, just be truthful to her and be, well, a friend to her, and if you're the affectionate type, be sure she knows you care about her. I don't know how to put it right, but just be yourself and she will love you for who you ARE!
2007-02-19 15:45:02 · answer #5 · answered by whatevbookwrm687 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Takl 2 hur be completely open
2007-02-19 15:43:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes you just gotta let go and live....true sometimes you get hurt...but "'tis far better to have loved and lost than to ne'er have loved at all"
2007-02-19 16:11:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you have a reason not to trust her?
2007-02-19 15:51:09 · answer #8 · answered by Cas 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you have already answered your own question if you have to ask it.
2007-02-19 15:49:10 · answer #9 · answered by firetdriver_99 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i want to help but i cant because im in the say sitch as u!!!:) sorry i couldnt help
2007-02-19 15:48:30 · answer #10 · answered by KeNnEdY R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋