He came home happy which is strange. Then made dinner. He either is an alien or is cheating on me. He never acts this way. Only when eh watches kidsp lay at the park.
2007-02-19 15:25:19 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
just because he comes home happy and cooks dinner doesnt mean he is cheating on you.......but you might want to find out what is making him so happy. and also for him to be cheating on you there has to be alot more signs.....for example like losing intrest in you or your needs.
2007-02-19 15:29:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me that there is some more evidence to your suspicion.. Yes comming happy home one day although he is always a grumpy guy, that could be a sign of him cheating...but if you are not finding odd numbers on his cellphonebill, and unknown calls to the house or cell, or him comming home late, or an extra clean car,although he normally has a dirty one, or all of the sudden he is extremly vain about himself and is starting to work out where normally he just is being sluggish on the couch consuming chips..or is interested in some new odd things like trying to learn a nw language..(believe me I am speaking from experience) then there is not much to worry about..so with you being sooo worried that he is are there any other signs? Is he like trying to avoid you? Is he sleeping alot?
I don't get the whole kid in the park thing..it is a little creepy though..
2007-02-19 23:39:15 · answer #2 · answered by Cindy E 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have just accused your husband for cheating just because he was in a good mood when he came home?? I think there is something wrong with you.
I call him a good man who can make a good dinner and who can make his wife happy! I call him a joyful and happy man who doesn't have to feel upset, hurt, or belittled.
I think you will enjoy these two books called, "The Proper Care and Feeding of Husbands" and "The Proper Care and Feeding of Marriage".
You ought to be grateful for having a husband like you have now who is willing to come home and make dinner so you don't have to make it and because he loves you. Start showing some appreciation in him. Plus, let him do those things without asking him why, but say 'thank you' to him always!
2007-02-19 23:38:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you didnt type any really signs that your hubby is cheating, here are some signs if he is cheating,
change in his appearance (like to look good all of a sudden)
not ever home
says working late but the pay isnt in the bank from all them hours he worked.
strange odors Like perfumes
no intrest in sex with you
pushes you away more often
if hes doing at least 3 of these then he may be cheating but cooking dinner and come home happy is not a real good way to think he is cheating
2007-02-19 23:33:17 · answer #4 · answered by Sparky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just embrace it! take advantage of his happiness! do something for him, take him out, get a little "frisky" in the bed... bc if you begin to question him or treat him like he is cheating on you, then sooner or later he may....
I dont think hed be making dinner or be coming home happy if he was cheating. most men (to my knowledge) arnt happy coming home to someone they no longer love, and they wouldnt put in more effort for someone they didnt have "refreshed" feelings for!
I really think you guys should enjoy this time and really REVIVE the love! try new and adventurous things together!
2007-02-19 23:32:59 · answer #5 · answered by ElBee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If watching kidsplay at the park make him come home happy, you got bigger problems than just him cheating.
2007-02-19 23:30:07 · answer #6 · answered by dadgonewild 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You sound like the wife that the comedians talk about. You know the one who cannot stand her husband having any fun whatsoever. He might be genuinely happy so just be happy for him and make sure you are there to share his happiness. Don't just get all gloomy and want to see your husband being miserable.
2007-02-19 23:51:02 · answer #7 · answered by smilingtalker_au 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I find your question and then the comment about his being happy when watching kids play at the park rather unusual. Are you suspecting he has tendencies to be sexually interested in children? I am not sure if that is what you are saying here or not - but if you are - and if you do suspect this - you owe it to the safety of the children in your community to report it.
2007-02-19 23:32:41 · answer #8 · answered by Monkey Lips 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Am sorry, I dont get it!! U min u are suspecting ur h/band of cheating simply bse he "came home happy", and "made dinner" there4 he is cheating on u, right?
2007-02-19 23:31:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hello lady
you said he came home happy.that should have been your chance to make believe with him.Or has there been problem in your home.please in such a mode you would have used it wisely to achieve your heart desire, the fact is that he may have secured a better job.lastly try not to be supicious that way things work better for you.thanks
2007-02-19 23:41:38 · answer #10 · answered by ebiyedinak 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋