one of the associate managers in my site like to cricitise others's work. she does not like things to be done thoroughly and she does not like the managers either. There were about 13 managers with her before and this is the 14th one....
She likes to play politics with the manager so whenever I do something very diligently she will not be happy. She likes to cough when she sees something she is not very happy with. So I have been warned with her coughs every time and that becomes very threatening. Today I was serving a customer with the computer problems and suddenly she coughed behind me and I was so scared and looked back, there she was watching me. Do you think there is something wrong with her?
I don't want to confront with her because she is very experienced and I know I cannot get rid of her as well....so what should I do with her and her warning coughs?
Thanks
2007-02-19 15:19:47 · 5 answers · asked by Denim 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
I want to cry every time when I thought of her horrible ways of dealing with me. I think she is a real psycho.
2007-02-19 19:32:14 · update #1
If I ignore her then she will ask another even nastier staff to “manage" me, which is to say that I have steal till's money.
That was happen before and I tried so hard to get over the ordeal.
2007-02-19 19:35:08 · update #2
Try to ignore her and just do your work and as long as you dont let her get your goat you should be fine.
2007-02-19 15:23:33 · answer #1 · answered by Akbar B 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she sounds like a nut.
if there is something that she's unhappy with, why can't she nicely explain why she's unhappy with it?
do you really love the job?
could you find a better one?
if you consider the fact that most of us spend at least 8 hours a day at work, we all might as well work in an enviornment that will be conducive to our well being.
if you are unhappy with anything in life...change it...because life is too short to not enjoy.
2007-02-19 23:32:07 · answer #2 · answered by manhattanmaryanne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't care if she is your boss, she is bullying you, and you don't have to stand for it. It sounds like there are other supervisors over her head, so you should go talk to one of them. If they confront her and she makes it unbearable for you, you need to find a new job. This is not a healthy work environment for you.
2007-02-19 23:30:07 · answer #3 · answered by fizzygurrl1980 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She has Control Issues.
She LOVEEEEE the fact that she makes
all of you nervous.
I hope the pay is good.
If not I would look for another job.
2007-02-19 23:33:21 · answer #4 · answered by elliebear 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well its just an attitude problem your boss is having.... as long as you are right do not be affected okay....
2007-02-19 23:26:28 · answer #5 · answered by desiree gersaniba 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋