leave him....
2007-02-23 11:34:02
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answered by MidnightSkies 7
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Get real pissy, real quick! lol
Show him the pornos, then leave him sitting there with the deer in the headlight look.
2007-02-19 15:01:46
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answered by Stephanie 3
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ask him if he wants to watch a movie, put one of the pornos on and ask him what the *@#* is this? then grab your bags and leave!
2007-02-19 15:04:06
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answered by firefly 4
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Buy extra 'protection" and morning after pills
2007-02-19 15:30:07
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answered by Mr. Right 2
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Dump him
2007-02-19 15:11:13
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answered by angel s 2
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I'll tell you the great secret to stop masturbating. I read two books that gave me all the information I needed. Creative Visualization by Shakti Gawain and The Power of Your Subconscious Mind by Dr. Joseph Murphy. These two books work hand in hand with each other and teach, among other things, the principles to get in control of yourself-although they don't specifically talk about masturbation-I used the principles there to overcome masturbation.
HERE IS THE SECRET: These books talk about if you want something, feel it as a reality now. Feel your goal, what it is like, everything about as a reality now. The feelings of lust and abstinence are opposites of each other and are like a door that swings two ways.
When I think lustful thoughts too much I feel the strong urges to masturbate and it’s like the door swinging one way. You have to push the "door" back the other way by concentrating on how you feel when you don't feel like masturbating. Isolate and feel that feeling NOW. Concentrate on what that feeling feels like and REALLY FEEL it NOW. Its like a meditation, you focus on and feel as much as possible the feeling of what you feel like when you don't feel like masturbating until that new feeling overtakes the urge to masturbate and its like pushing the "door" back the other way to abstinence.
It can take a lot of time though--several hours or even a couple of days. There were days when I busied myself doing brainless tasks so I could concentrate on that feeling of non-urge or what I felt like when I didn't want to masturbate and I would feel it and concentrate on that feeling until that feeling overtook the urge to masturbate. I thought of a few specific times when I didn't want to masturbate and WHAT I FELT LIKE and I concentrated on that feeling for several hours and felt it as much as possible until it overtook my urge to masturbate.
I pictured myself at those times and imagined myself at that point and how I felt at those times and I tried to feel over my whole body that feeling of non-urge or the non-desire to masturbate as much as possible. After several hours that new feeling takes over and it’s like pushing the door back all the way to abstinence. You just have to keep concentrating on that feeling and FEEL IT NOW. Overcome the urge to masturbate with this new feeling of how you feel when you don't feel like masturbating. The two books mentioned above really helped me lot as they give a lot of mental exercises to obtain what you want.
I used this information to prepare for my two year service as a Mormon missionary and it worked very well for me. I could go several months or even a year or two without masturbating. Whenever the urge to masturbate comes now, I just concentrate on how I’ve felt at times that I don’t want to masturbate until that feeling overcomes my urge.
Prayer and reading the scriptures are important too. When you read the Bible or Book of Mormon you feel the holy ghost and that also gives you strength to stop.
2007-02-19 16:16:36
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answered by jade217 1
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If it is for making money, it seems ok.
2007-02-19 15:31:16
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answered by Anonymous
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make my own.with them....and make it a snuff movie
2007-02-19 15:07:42
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answered by sadistic_bondagelover 4
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plain and simple, leave.
2007-02-19 15:00:50
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answered by Anonymous
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leave him asap
2007-02-19 14:59:58
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answered by lady_luv 2
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whoa i would leave them!
2007-02-19 14:59:02
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answered by rat_leg danny 3
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