I know i dint put the R in the word. I am one and hate it but i dont want to acctually do it i am to young!!!!!!!!
2007-02-19 14:47:48 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
I'm 21 and still a virgin. I don't hate it. I'm rather proud of it actually. My sister had sex for the first time when she was WAY too young and she really regrets it. I have no intention of rushing my first "real" (because masturbating does not count) sexual experience. I could lose it to someone who meant nothing to me, someone who viewed me as nothing more than a way to release sexual tension, but I'm a bit of a romantic and I can't understand the reason behind casual sex (well, I can understand it, but it makes no sense to me).
If you really hate being a virgin that much, perhaps you should examine why you dislike it so intensely. How old are you anyway? Is it because of peer pressure? I wish you lots of luck with this situation and please don't rush into anything that you aren't ready for. Also, remember that anyone who tells you that you "don't love me if you don't have sex with me," is an absolute jack@$$ who deserves none of your time, attention or tears. All he has earned himself, in my book anyway, is the carelessly uttered phrase, "well, don't let the door hit you in the @$$ on your way out!"
2007-02-19 17:47:35 · answer #1 · answered by melodys_notes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I' am a 21 year old virgin and I like it. Because I want to wait until I find someone I love and in a committed relationship. Yes, it can be torture sometimes because you are constantly horny and sex is the only thing you can think about, but it is worth it. With all the STDs and pregnancy going around, I rather wait. Besides, I heard plenty of stories with women wishing they had waited a little bit longer to lose their virginity. Be happy with who you are and wait until it is the right time. Don't have sex because you want to experiment or everyone else is doing it, do your own thing and wait.
2007-02-19 23:09:36 · answer #2 · answered by ♥♥Bree♥♥ 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
im 19 and a virgin....and i cant say i hate it but i definitely dont love it either. I dont know...its just something to look forward to when i am with the one that I love. I do plan on staying a virgin for a while to...i kinda have a mindset of what happens happens, but im definitely not going to give it up to anyone and neither should you.
2007-02-19 22:55:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'm no longer a virgin (I'm married), but I wanted to tell you there's NOTHING wrong with being a virgin.
Pay no attention to the peer pressure to not be one. They are lying when they say everyone is doing it. They're not. Trust me.
I stayed a virgin until long after I graduated school.
Please don't hate being a virgin. You should be PROUD.
Be glad you don't have AIDS or that you're not pregnant.
2007-02-19 23:35:00 · answer #4 · answered by Nancy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im a virgin too and I mean I wonder what its like to have sex and I love getting fingered because it feels amazing but I think I can wait until I know the time is right, I believe that you can too.
2007-02-19 23:22:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I waited a long time to have sex for the first time. I was older than most all of my friends and felt strange having not done it. Long story short, I rushed into it with someone that took advantage of me and it ended up being one of my worst memories ever. You should have sex when YOU are ready, when YOU feel it's right, and when you are mature and responsible enough to handle to potential outcomes. It's not something to feel bad about. Whoever you end up sharing it with will hopefully appreciate that you waited for it to be with someone special.
2007-02-19 22:58:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I was a virgin and I hated it. I wanted to have sex pretty bad, I didn't wait and now I regret it because now I have a boyfriend I love and I don't have that sence of secrurity knowing that I had something more to offer. THink it through
2007-02-19 22:55:16 · answer #7 · answered by Boomer B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
then dont do it if you dont want to...........you have plenty of time when you get older.dont rush it.
and no im not a virgin............i got 3 kids...........but i wish i would have waited.i had my first kid at the age of 16 and then my other kid at the age of 17 and then the 3rd kid 5 yrs later.
so just think before something like that happens to you.
but i dont regret it..........i love my kids
2007-02-19 22:54:41 · answer #8 · answered by ice 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been a Virgo my whole life and didn't care much for being one when I was younger "and a virgin" ...but now I am proud to be a Virgo(the virgin)...I'm just not very good at it !!!
2007-02-19 22:57:47 · answer #9 · answered by budlowsbro420 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
doll...u k....cuzz i am one too..n i love it..i can hang out w anyone i want...n be sure bout myself...why?also how young r u? i am waiting for the perfect man...u knw like my dream man..lol..but yea...have fun while u r a virgin...dont rush...
u r risking ur' life...
2007-02-19 22:57:05 · answer #10 · answered by i*love*u 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋