ive suspected that my man might of cheated so i confronted him about it several times but when he explains to me what happened or how he has always been i feel hes being 100% h onest with me... body language sincerity etc. im not a stupid girl either and hes an amazingggg guy nice caring etc. is it so bad that i have faith in my man?
and dont go saying every many cheats.. i dont have to worry about other guys just this one that i have .
2007-02-19 13:56:06 · 10 answers · asked by nygirlsrdifferent 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
i said i dont have to worry about every other guy. meaning statistically i don thave to worry who cheats it doesnt affect him.
2007-02-19 14:01:50 · update #1
i never said he cheated on me btw.
2007-02-19 14:52:06 · update #2
and why have you suspected him. if he is such good boy and you know so well his body language and so on and so on maybe you know him so well your unique guy and why the heck you have cornered him to explain you what happened. you are so bossy. i would be glad if he cheated on you. sorry but i'm a guy and am not into supportative girlish talk that's why i tell you the truth as i see it. wish you a better relationship.
2007-02-24 07:02:07 · answer #1 · answered by Di Snow 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nice guys cheat and jerks cheat but does every man cheat-
NO ,
I think that if you have to keep confronting him about it then obviously his explanations aren't sitting well with you. You have to really look at why you keep suspecting, is it that he hangs out w/female friends, late nights w/the guys, whatever the reason. Get it out in the open & remove the problem or this will continue and you'll end up being miserable and thats not good for any realtionship.
2007-02-19 14:12:14 · answer #2 · answered by Kris 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wise up girl,whether you want to hear it or not,once a cheat always a cheat.There is no such thing as an accident,or being drunk,or my favorite it just happened it didn't mean anything.Well it meant enough to you for you to deceive and lie to the person you say you love.Men need to be honest with themselves and just admit when they see or meet someone that they want to sleep with they just do it,because they are thinking about one thing and nothing else,when they think about the other person and know that they are probably going to be hurt by what they did,that's when they come up with their sorry.Honey there are several different kinds of men.The ones who understand and are not afraid to show how they feel.The ones who are self-centered and only think of themselves.The ones who cheat and cannot be faithful to one person.and the ones who rather let the woman do all the work in a relationship. Now I don't know what kind of man you think you got,but you need to rethink what kind of man you have now.99% of the time when a woman thinks her man is up to something,their instincts are usually right.So if you want to believe what he tells you,that's your choice.And if you believed what he told you,you wouldn't have wrote this question. Think about it Good luck
2007-02-19 14:19:22 · answer #3 · answered by glorene b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
one thing if u want to keep this guy stop nagging him cause if u dont have trust you dont have S hit!!!!
and if u feel he is being honest then know in your mind he is.
mabe this is a worry question that you are afraid that he might cheat.
if he loves you and truly cares then he wont.
and trust me if he does you will know.
and not every man cheats just like not every woman cheats but keepers are hsrd to find
2007-02-26 19:32:03 · answer #4 · answered by katie fitzy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you believe in your heart that he is telling the truth 100% then that is your answer. Don't keep bringing it up and nagging him about it though. Is he making you feel like he is cheating on you? And no, you should be able to have faith in your spouse.
2007-02-19 13:59:36 · answer #5 · answered by angelsdeath420 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound like you don't trust him and you're looking for us to help convince yourself that he is faithful. If he is cheating then leave, if not, then stop asking him about it or else, he could get tired of you nagging him. Honey most men won't tell you if they'er cheating. Stop nagging and do a little investergation on your own,
2007-02-26 19:58:09 · answer #6 · answered by Go GO Ressa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You say your suspected that your man cheated. You have to think about why you suspect him. If there are very good indications, but he just denies it, you should still trust your intuition and move on with your life and find somenoe else. Just break it off with this guy and start dating again.
Are you waiting to catch him en flagrante?
2007-02-26 18:27:00 · answer #7 · answered by kathyw 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marriage needs to be based on trust. I can understand a wife asking if her spouse has been faithful to her, but it's not wise to keep asking if he hasn't done anything to cause suspicions. If you keep asking it could drive him into the act since he may feel he is being accused of it anyway.
2007-02-27 00:51:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds more like you don't trust him than you do... I'd never have to ask my husband, why do you say in one sentence that you have faith in your man and in the next that you have to worry about him?
2007-02-19 14:00:27 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NOT IF HE IS COMPLETELY OPEN ABOUT HIS ACTIONS
2007-02-27 12:25:36 · answer #10 · answered by Bettee62 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋