that he didnt cheat? because i know a lot of people who suspect there man cheating on them but i know the man very well and really really doubt he can do that. nicest guy ever and he denies it to them to the fullest.
ever get past the trust thing because i know people do it all the time that is what faith is.
any ideas
2007-02-19 13:38:07 · 8 answers · asked by nygirlsrdifferent 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Been There!!!! It can happen. Trust is the biggest thing in a relationship and once that's broken it is hard. If you truly love each other than yes in time you can overcome it and move on.
2007-02-19 13:42:03 · answer #1 · answered by allforit420 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, just depends on your reasons for suspicion. Most girls have a 6th sense about those things, and 99% of the time they are RIGHT. However, there are silly moments of insecurity that bring us to think our guys would cheat on us. So really, you just have to stop and think where your thoughts are coming from. Are they coming from him being gone till 3 AM most nights and turning you down and not being interested in you, catching him in a lie, smelling another woman on him, or are you just feeling kinda low and thinking he would cheat because you feel so down on yourself? Think about it and the honest answer will come to you. Until he gives you a reason not to, you should trust him completely and without pestering him about it. Otherwise youre dooming your relationship.
But if it turns out your suspicions are right, then only you can decide what to do from that point. If you can forgive him, and continue with the relationship then do that and dont punish him everyday! It was your choice to take him back! If not, kick his *** to the curb and find someone who will appreciate you! Because you deserve it!
Hope that helped :)
2007-02-19 13:59:40 · answer #2 · answered by illusive_behavior 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cheating? Having sex with a man or woman who is not your spouse or engaged committed significant other is not really cheating. That is, if there is no formal enforceable commitment, there cannot be any cheating. Marriage and engagement are the only two commitments that are enforceable by law. If there is a child born out-of-wedlock while "cheating" on a spouse or friend, it's still illegitimate. No matter how one defines cheating, it always destroys the trust, which is almost impossible to re-establish or re-built.
2016-05-24 18:31:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, usually there are signs that a man is cheating. Some women have intuition about it. Normal women just don't suspect without one of those two things.
2007-02-19 13:41:42 · answer #4 · answered by Brown-eyed girl 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh god yes and I did end up believing him but that suspicion will never go away.
2007-02-19 13:42:03 · answer #5 · answered by Kris 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if there is a real reason not to trust him she may never
2007-02-19 13:42:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its denial. and u know what, nice guys cheat also.
2007-02-19 13:50:03 · answer #7 · answered by braille 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
trust can be gained back... but it might take time and work...
2007-02-19 13:42:55 · answer #8 · answered by runningballerina 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋