2007-02-19 13:03:56 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Ok all i did was ask my GF is she liked rock climbing. She said i was random and walked out.
2007-02-19 13:11:31 · update #1
Depends on how random you are. Random is usually funny but if your just out there....well there's only so much other people can take.
2007-02-19 13:06:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm guessing you mean that you have not yet decided what you want to do with your life--which is okay--but you do know that you will need to decide that at some point. So, for right now, I'm going to assume that you're "just there," not doing anything in particular--and possibly making random decisions based only on your mood at the time.
If you are very young, it might just be a phase--if it continues into adulthood, you may need some help in organizing your life, and learning to make intelligent decisions. No matter how old you are, you should have some interests--there has to be something that you are passionate about. That could be drawing, painting, writing, singing, playing the guitar, or some scholastic achievement. It could also be the goal to buy a car, have your own place to live, meeting your soul-mate, having the best wardrobe in town, or becoming an actor.
Are you just hanging out alone, or do you have friends? If you have friends or family members who you are close to, you are not random. You are an individual who is just unsure of what exactly it is that you want to be. It will come to you...
2007-02-19 21:27:29 · answer #2 · answered by Holiday Magic 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's worse to be constantly predictable. Constantly random isn't great either, though.
For example...if you and your friend were invited to have tea with the queen, it wouldn't be a great idea to suddenly start telling off color jokes during the meet 'n greet. You do have to be able to control your random behaviour when the situation calls for it.
2007-02-19 21:05:38 · answer #3 · answered by Lisa E 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only if the people around you aren't used to it. Oh, and did you happen to see the last episode of Heroes? I missed it. Hey, that's a cool watch you're wearing? Did you get it at Kohl's? I saw this really ugly pair of pants there. Where is the bathroom? Let's go to the zoo tomorrow.
2007-02-19 21:07:12 · answer #4 · answered by Angela M 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends really on what you're random about or in regards to. Variety is the spice of life, but consistency is important in a lot of facets of life. All good things in moderation..
2007-02-19 21:07:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol no its not bad to be random, but i guess it helps if your normal some of the time,
but hey being random is FUN
2007-02-19 21:06:49 · answer #6 · answered by smiles 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know me too!! People tell me why am I so random, I just try to be funny and brake the awkward silence.
2007-02-19 21:06:02 · answer #7 · answered by Wireless 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Potato.
2007-02-19 21:05:43 · answer #8 · answered by Omni D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the situation. If you're not listening, then it's disrespectful and "bad." If you're showing others respect, then it's creative and you're giving energy and fun to others.
2007-02-19 21:09:03 · answer #9 · answered by the foolish fox 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ITS ALL ABOUT YOUR MOOD AT THAT PARTICULAR TIME AND WHAT IT YOU ARE BEING RANDOM ABOUT. YOU NEED A PERFECT BALANCE OF Spontaneity AND STRUCTURE. too much of one or another will create an imbalance.
2007-02-19 21:09:26 · answer #10 · answered by BI - Health 1s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋