Should i still hang out with him?

Question

I'm trying to explain this better since people didn't understand last time.
- My ex and i broke up in May
- He wants to hang out with me
- Only problem is, while he had another girlfriend i went on his girlfriend's email and pretended to talk to a guy and cheat and forward it to my ex. Or i would go on his email or his mom's because once she was talking about me. I checked his voicemail.
- I know some people do this all the time.
- My question is, should i still hang out with him?
- He doesn't know about any of this
- Him and his girlfriend didn't break up because of me. He told me it was because of her mom.
- I would never go back with him because he was controlling when i was with him but he isn't as a friend.

I mean hang out as FRIENDS by the way.

Answer 1

so if he wants to hang out with you just hang out with him but i know it might feel weird around him but he just wants to hang out with you so do it.

Answer 2

Why would you want to hang out with him if he isn't even a friend? If he's that controlling, then that's all you'll end up with even as just friends, once his true nature can't hide anymore. When someone wants to hang out after a break-up, it's usually just a ploy to eventually get back in your pants. Or to have easier access to screw up any future relationship you may have with someone else.

Answer 3

From what you are saying there seems to be a lot of drama. You are better off making a clean break from this guy and hanging out with other people. Hanging out with him will only suck you into a vicious cycle that you may not be able to break. Don't hang out with him any longer!

Answer 4

Relationships are a tough thing. We have the idea of what society wants us to be, and what we really want. There is no such thing as a normal relationship.

If you think you could handle being his friend, I'd definitely go for it. You may have a sidekick for life! But, if you think your romantic feelings will get in the way, I suggest staying away.

There is no such thing as a happy relationship when one is demanding what another couldn't possibly offer.

Good luck!

Answer 5

" I would never go back with him because he was controlling when I was with him but he isn't as a friend". It is just a matter of time! Did you forget already? You may have a few issues yourself, "checking" voice and emails? How old are you?

Answer 6

Huh, stalker alert!!! Sounds like you need to really suck it up and move on cos you are doing some very bizarre and just plain disgusting behaviors here...You need to get help for this, talk to a therapist maybe you can get over your issues, but this is not normal whatsoever I am not sure where you get the idea that this was an okay thing to do...

Answer 7

that still says it all, dont go back to him and if you are so sure that you dont want to go back to him why hang out with him i mean yes you ppl can still tlk and all but the hanging out part is not into it. it is going to prevent u from moving on, trust me i know this, i have been in similar situation. and its just not going to work.

Answer 8

You should just tell him the truth about what you did, tell him you know it was wrong. If he is a friend he will understand and forgive you. Try to just be nice about it if he gets really mad just apologize and give it time, because most likely he will forgive you.

Answer 9

OK, you broke up with him, he has a GF now.
what are you screwing around with something that is none of your business as in his GF's email?

if your ex should find out, does he want to hang out with someone that is as underhanded as that?
thats mean to do something like that...moreso if the break up was actually do to your stunt.

move on, find someone else.

Answer 10

Sure hang out, but you might want to set some ground rules.