i like this girl and im a girl... im bi just so u all know... and she flirts wih me sometimes... and i want to fliirt back but i cant think of any good ways to flirt with her... i want to get her attion... cuz all the flirting i deas that i come up with arnt stuff that she'll notice... so i need some flirting ideas that are noticeable or that arnt that noticable by everyone just that only she will notice, that will be a real turn on... and how can i get her to want more?
thanx
2007-02-19 12:55:40 · 7 answers · asked by i am the one and only me 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Just be yourself, talk to her, make her laugh, ask her to go out with you to the movies or something, and spend time with her. Don't try to over do the flirting, it gets a little carried away. Have fun with her, and make her feel comfortable around you. If she returns the same feelings, then you will know that she likes you and wishes to pursue a relationship with you. I am a lesbian student, and the first time I asked a girl out I was freaking out. I didn't know what she would say, or even if she was gay or not. (She was, and that was a relief.) She was my friend towards the later years of high school, and I was extremely attracted to her. I would prepare for a night out with her as if it was a date, even before we were dating. I didn't know how to get her attention or actually date a woman. Its not like dating guys, if a girl had trouble with that she could always turn on the tv :) . (Not that that is realistic, but you get my point.) So, it was really hard, and I can understand where you are coming from. Its a difficult place to be in life. Just understanding your sexuality, and really wanting to have the joy and fun of dating that your peers have is completely natural and normal. Flirting isn't really that hard, you just need to get used to being comfortable around those you are attracted to, that's all. There is nothing wrong with having a crush on a person, and there is nothing wrong with be scared to death to ask them out. Whether gay or straight, we all have nervous breakdowns around those we like.
Okay, now you wanted flirting ideas...so I will get off my soapbox and spew out a few. Again, be yourself, but don't get carried away. Ask her about herself, and chat a little. When she flirts, smile and wink. Say something that will make her laugh, and chat a little. The more you talk and get together, the easier things will be. I hope that helps, Interlunium.
2007-02-19 13:09:19 · answer #1 · answered by Waverly Pascale 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Find A Way To Touch Her Or Look At Her... Say Certain Things That She Will Notice. Even Dress A Certain Way You Never Know. Or You Could Be Brave And As Her Does She Like You. You Can Email Me If You Want Anytime. :)
2007-02-19 13:26:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
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2016-10-16 01:29:20 · answer #3 · answered by Erika 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if she's flirting with you now, than she likes you so just be yourself. do u have class with her? If so, tell her you want to show her a drawing, but instead of drawing it yourself, place the pen in her and place your hand over hers. she'll be holding the pen, but you'll be guiding her hand. get really close and whisper in her ear that she looks cute today. just do little things that involve wrapping your arm around her or touching her in some way.
2007-02-19 13:29:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
sometime you have to go slow, and let the course of nature do its
job, dont get into a hurry, a nd dont try to use your way. unless you are sure that she is with you all the way? dont count on and d
epend on guess work, be very sure of what you are doing. if she dont feel the same way that you feel, then you got alot of trouble on your hands?
2007-02-25 05:53:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could try asking her to go out somewhere. Maybe send her flowers, do something romantic! That should get her attention!
2007-02-19 14:26:58 · answer #6 · answered by kar506 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
find a way to touch her, like write on her hand and tell her stuff like oh you have soft hands, you have little hands, your hands are cold, and stuff, mess with her arms/hands. It always works!
2007-02-19 13:13:58 · answer #7 · answered by laurapazacf2003 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋