how am i sure my wife had an orgasm?

Answer 1

try oral sex on her first and then do the wild thing

Answer 2

I assume you are asking if you can tell the difference between a real orgasm and a fake orgasm. Contractions, moaning and breathing can all be faked. The visible signs of an orgasm vary from woman to woman and the degrees of each sign varies as well. Generally the signs that cannot be faked (if they are present in the woman in question) are increased and/or thickened vaginal secretion, dilation of the pupil and flush skin on the face neck and chest.

Answer 3

Did you ask her if she had an orgasm? If you did, and you are thinking that she possibly is lying and saying she does when she really doesn't then I can't imagine why she would do that - it's HER loss if she's not having orgasms!!! She's your wife, you should be able to have this discussion with her!

Answer 4

You can not be sure. My husband and I are very sexually active and I have faked them for YEARS. He always prompts me to *** a lot and multiple times and will not accept that most women (including me) can not do this. So I fake them. Don't get me wrong, sex with him feels temendous, even after 15 years but he can not accept limitations and so by me faking thiem, it keeps him happy and our sex life great. I know it is essentially a lie but it keeps the peace and I am not willing to fight this issue over and over and over. Sorry-don't pressure your wife. Just enjoy her body and yours together and ask her (and be willing to do) what it takes to help her have an orgasm.

Answer 5

I think if a woman is a good faker than a man would not know. I myself am not a good lie er therefore I would not nor would I ever be able to fake one. Never have, never will therefore my husband knows if I have or not.

Answer 6

i guess you cant be sure she did..........