start living again, my husband passed away, and don't know what to do with mylife, i'm sad and board.
i needs to get out but i don't know where to start
2007-02-19 12:43:33 · 8 answers · asked by tabatha 3 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Oh my god, honey...i'm so sorry.
i've found when i lost the love of my life, i just kept busy. Find projects and things that interest yourself. You have to make yourself happy now, it's the only way to deal with the heartache.
2007-02-19 12:50:41 · answer #1 · answered by Terry Brass 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ive been here before my mom died and i didnt know what to do with myself and sometimes i think like this when im down. but u have to think would ur husband want u being all sad and moping around? i think he would like for u to think of the good times and move on with ur life eventually and everyone has to do this sometimes. if u dont eventually get on with ur life u might need to go to a coping class or something or talk about somethings other than that u will be alright and sorry about ur loss.
2007-02-19 20:53:22 · answer #2 · answered by misscutie8194 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am sorry to hear that
I would try going out and meeting others or find a chat room that you can occupy some time with.
I am sure your husband would have wanted you to find someone to make you happy
I hope you get an answer and find someone new
and find happiness
2007-02-19 21:08:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
At least you have a reason not to find it easy to move on but what's my excuse?
I'm sorry your husband passed away. I guess time will help. Good luck.
2007-02-19 20:56:24 · answer #4 · answered by Gustav 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you considered taking some classes at a local community college - It might be a way to keep busy and meet some friends....I am sorry for your loss......
2007-02-19 20:52:28 · answer #5 · answered by sydney 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your religious you could go to church if you don't already or you could volunteer. Be a mentor or a big sister. Having people need you helps most people to feel better. Hope you feel better soon.
2007-02-19 20:48:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should try to get on with your life. Try not to think about your husband too much. Mabye try to find a new husband.
2007-02-19 20:47:17 · answer #7 · answered by tamaguide101 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
start with what you know...ease yourself into it.
2007-02-19 21:13:52 · answer #8 · answered by frecklegirl145 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋