im sure he is. but here is the deal. we dated about 3 yrs ago for about 4 months. he left for the navy and we remained friends til he got back in aug. we got back together...& i even got preg but had a miscarriage. (which by the way, the 3 times we had sex wasnt intimate). he told me he couldnt do it anymore...he was confused. then he lied and said he didnt have a myspace acct, but he forgot to log off his acct on my comp. i saw all his guy friends were gay and he didnt have his sexual preference listed. everyone has told me he is gay. and he is also wanting to be a mens fahsion designer. we are working on getting back together. but all he does is give me a pop kiss every now and then. i try to be sexual with him but he says hes practicing abstinence. every sign points to GAY, but i guess im holding on to hope that the guy ive always loved and always thought i would have a family with one day wasnt gay... and that we would really be together. just be honest with me!
2007-02-19 12:36:24 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
you are denial because you love him but you know the answer in your heart - i dont even need to tell you what i think and neither does anybody else here - if your gut tells you he is gay then he is as good as gay. even if you got back together with him could you be totally happy knowing what you know? and do you honestly think he would be happy? go with your gut and find someone who isnt as questionable.
2007-02-19 12:40:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it doesn't sound good. Would you rather find out now or after you had a child and were married? You are going to have to ask youself if you want to know now and live with it, or find out later and have regret or even be hiv positive. I am not trying to be brutal here, but you have to ask youself the hard questions, and know that in your heart he will probably always love you, but isn't it better to know now? all the signs are bad ones, it doesn't mean he is a bad person, it means that he really is confused and if you wanted to be the best friend you could be you would ask him straight out when you are alone, and tell him you are not judging him you just want to know before things get any more serious and I think they already are. Its time for the talk!!! It may break your heart, but its something you need to know now. Take care Heather
2007-02-19 12:45:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds gay to me. Very gay. And even if he isn't, does it matter? What matters is that you are not fulfilled in this relationship, and all signs point to you never will be. It doesn't matter what he is. The question is, is he right for you? And I think you know the answer in your heart.
2007-02-19 14:23:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
U consistently choose what u cant have. perchance that's it. He seems untouchable now. If hes gay then u have 2 relixe that no count number what, whether u r in a relationship, he will nevertheless be attracted to adult men, and could cheat. i think of u ought to attempt to pass on relatively!
2016-10-16 01:27:21 · answer #4 · answered by Erika 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's your ex. Keep him that way.
There is nothing to be gained by knowing for sure if he is gay or not. You need to find a way to give up the unrealistic hope you have for your own sanity's sake.
I wish you well.
2007-02-19 12:57:51 · answer #5 · answered by castle h 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may not be gay, but he sure is being dishonest and he's using you. You can't trust a person like this. Break up with him and get on with your life.
2007-02-19 12:42:53 · answer #6 · answered by g s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him. He sounds pretty gay. Let him know that you love him regardless - if he's not comfortable, then he won't tell you.
2007-02-19 12:40:52 · answer #7 · answered by smellyfoot ™ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes a homosexual...and, using your for a cover up...
get out...fast...and get an aids test..before your life is in big trouble...
guys love being with women...no excuses...they love everything about them. this guy loves guys
run run run.................f a s t !!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-02-19 12:52:35 · answer #8 · answered by Winters child 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow, i would say so if he not into sex, first of all, all man want sex- you know. for him not to want it thats a lil gayish to me
2007-02-19 12:41:05 · answer #9 · answered by dianebarton86 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just dont pressure him, he migth not even be sure himself
2007-02-19 13:15:15 · answer #10 · answered by laurapazacf2003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋