my so called best friends just pretty much called me a femal dog and my other friend agreed! wat do i do!
i cant believe them and im so mad!
i have no best friends in my school now:'(
2007-02-19 12:11:23 · 28 answers · asked by So is your face 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
go out of ur clique & find diff. friends.. & if they say that then they aint real.. they r so fake!! so move on & dont let it get u down...
2007-02-19 12:14:42 · answer #1 · answered by totally stressed 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry your friends are being jerks, but if they're treating you this way then they dont deserve to have you for a friend. My definition of a friend is someone who looks out for you because you look out for them and its obvious your friends arent up to that. However, is there something you could have done to start this mess. It usually takes more then one person to start something. If your at fault, then appologize and let it go. If they still want you for a friend, then they'll come back when they're ready. If you cant find fault then I'd just ignore them. Get involved with stuff you wouldnt normally wouldnt attend and see if you cant make some new, hopefully better friends. If the best they can do is name calling then they're losing their touch. Good luck. :)
2007-02-19 20:19:33 · answer #2 · answered by Samantha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OUCH!!!! Doesn't it hurt to find that your friends aren't your real friend, Keep your Chin up, better for you to find out now at a younger age then to be in your 40's realizing no one you grew up with likes you.
Guess what, I'll admit I was a popular SOB back in the day, then all of a sudden, 1 day, my first day of High School(9th) I cut everyone off and had NO FRIENDS! Because well I didn't like em' and I found they weren't too fond of me either, I got new friends, real friends who would do anything for me, and until this day at 22 years old, I don't regret a single thing I did and don't care about a damn thing they said about me. Life will kick them in the head one day don't worry.
Just 1 thing you don't do, dont burn your birdges without excepting the concequences, OK!?!
I wish best of luck to you, now and later in life. Starting tomorrow, make new friends, talk to those you ignored over the years.
Have fun, and smile!
2007-02-19 20:19:10 · answer #3 · answered by Joe Capo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like they are jelous about something that recently happened if you have been friends for a while.
You guys will more than likely be friends again in a few days. It wouldn't hurt to make some new friends although I wouldn't try right away. You don't want them to think you are doing it because of them.
But, yeah..you should make some new friends so you will have other people outside of these "friends"
2007-02-19 20:25:58 · answer #4 · answered by pamcake 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
friends come and friends go, there are going to be so many people walking in and out of your life. So many name callings but you will one day see the people that matter will still be there and the people that dont wont. Out of 100 friends you may have there will only ever be that 1 that will stick by you. Its nice to have friends just make sure they are right by you, dont settle for someone who is going to back stab you then be your friend the next day because it will only happen again, you will have people that will stick by you it just takes sometime. as for those friends if they come back well you can forgive them but dont put all your trust in them and be careful what you say to them because if they can do it once they can do it again.
hope all goes well for you.
2007-02-19 20:18:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well they were probaly picking on you. Or you either they are mad at you too. Did you ever think to ask them why they called you a biotch? I mean people just dont call you that for no reason. So maybe you should go talk to them. And ask them why they called you that. So go talk to your "so called friends". I hope ya'll work things out.
2007-02-19 20:32:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am so sorry that happened to you, it can be very hurtful to have your friends turn on you. It happened to me as well when I was younger, but it was the best thing for me really.
I started hanging with a better set of girls...the smart girls, and now I have much more than those silly girls that kicked me out of their circle ever could.
At my last high school reunion they were all fat and ugly, and looked very poor to me...it was sad, but I laugh to myself with great satification.
Hang in there and good luck to you :)
2007-02-19 20:19:03 · answer #7 · answered by 452 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you talk about your friends like that, why are you so surprised that they consider you the same? If you put negative out there (at school) you'll get negative back. Your teenage years are a time of change and unfortunately that means your friends too.
2007-02-19 20:15:48 · answer #8 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well they're either telling the truth and you need to check yourself, they weren't your friends in the first place and they were just posing as your friends so they could get something that you had, or they are now jealous of you for something. My advice is to first check yourself and if you truely can't find anything then ditch'em. Good luck to ya!
2007-02-19 20:20:10 · answer #9 · answered by Naomi J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may have made them mad if you did say sorry and tell them that you guys should never disrespect each other again. If they said that without a cause then you need 2 leave those two alone.
2007-02-19 20:16:09 · answer #10 · answered by sweet p 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try and find out why and if you really care about the friendship that you had with them thry and make it up to them cause life without friends is a life that well sucks
2007-02-19 20:15:22 · answer #11 · answered by Rachael 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋