I am 19 years old Everyday i wake up and i just dont feel happy through out the day mostly i feel as if i have a disesa of some sort and its going to kill me like im not gonna know what the future will look like for me i know i am young but i dont feel like i can handle another stressful situation and it seems when stress comes along latly i wanna throw up and curl in a ball and die i have been through alot in life atleaste more than someone my age has my mom is crazy and i cant deal with that i cry alot but feel as if i cant at times i always get moody and feel this empty feeling inside i have had part of my cervix removed after i lost a baby and what i want in life is too have a baby but i feel as if ill never have that and if i did i wouldnt know how to deal with the changes is this depression? a fase? a mental disorder am i going crazy and information would be helpful please thank you.
2007-02-19 12:04:44 · 7 answers · asked by Ashley C 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Try to relax a bit. It's perfectly reasonable for you to have these feelings considering what you've been through. They are really hitting you right now but understand that they can get better over time. You need to talk to someone who can help you work through these feelings.
As you said, not too many people your age have gone through as much as you, so talk to someone older and wiser. It could be a school counselor or a minister. Better yet, find a professional therapist who will listen to you, not just give you prescriptions. They don't have to be a psychiatrist, just someone accredited in individual therapy. Sometimes they're the best people to work with.
You probly are depressed but who wouldn't be in your situation? You're not going crazy, just overwhelmed with emotions right now. Get some help and you'll at least feel like there's someone there for you. Let them hel.
Best of luck. It was a good idea to put your question out there.
2007-02-19 12:26:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are depressed. I'm not quite sure how depressed, but you do need to see a specialist for that. You should go and talk to someone and maybe they could help with either medication or some other type of remedy. You could go through your medical insurance to find a doctor. Most insurance company's cover this type of situation. As for having a baby, all is not lost. You do have other options. Adoption is one, and the other is having a surrogate mother. Both are costly, but if that is what you really want, I say go for it. I hope you seek professional help soon.
2007-02-19 12:14:03 · answer #2 · answered by nick6hq 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl you are going through difficult times. Everyone's life is different and you never know how it will turn out, but that's the beauty of it.
You are young and I'm sure things will get better even if it seems right now it won't. Time helps a lot. It really doesn't sound like you are crazy.
If you think it can help then go ahead and talk or write to a friend or anyone. You can also e-mail me if you like.
2007-02-19 12:20:44 · answer #3 · answered by Gustav 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yo first off almost all 19 year old feel like this. you can get medicine but you have to decide if you want to be dependent on that the rest of your life or just be strong and deal with it. it will not be easy but at least you are alive. i know alot of people with alot worse problems than that and they still fight the struggle everyday but they are all happy. u just have to accept that u cant have kids and there is always other options to get kids. just remember that u never know what day will be your last and you don't want people to remember you as a crazy or sad person. no one knows what the future will hold but make the best of it. FATE IS WHAT YOU MAKE FOR YOURSELF!!
2007-02-19 12:19:31 · answer #4 · answered by aspen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NIneteen is a tough age, Ashley, especially when your mom isn't there to support you. It does sound like you might be dealing with some depression and seeing a doctor or therapist could be very helpful for you. Take care and find people who can be supportive of you.
2007-02-19 12:12:32 · answer #5 · answered by rcpeabody1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely sounds like depression...you should seek help to deal with this. You may even need medication....a professional can make that decision.
2007-02-19 12:11:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to go seek help. Please do that for yourself. Your not crazy you just have been through alot.
2007-02-19 12:22:27 · answer #7 · answered by Vicki B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋