Me and my boyfrind dont have sex that often on accoun we are very buzy with things but any way, we had sex last nite and I felt like a virgin all over again and it was hurting but after we finished I went to the bathroom and saw that I was bleeding and I dunno what it is..I'm not on my periode and my cherry popped many years ago..so what is it?
2007-02-19 11:30:17 · 7 answers · asked by Torri M 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
You might have something wrong up there. Something might have ripped, something might have been torn.... anything. Or you are spotting from your period. I would go see my doctor if i were you. I hope you will be alright!
2007-02-19 11:35:02 · answer #1 · answered by Star's mommy 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Alright, there could be many reasons you bleed during or after sex. Not enough lubrication is definitly the most common reason. I know this was a problem for me and I was in no way a virgin. Whats happening is if your are not lubricated enough it will cause you to tare. Which is also why it may hurt. Go to your local pharmacy or grocery store and pick up some KY or Astroglide. If you find this is not working it could be an infection. Possibly a yeast infection or something a little more serious. Another reason is if your boyfriend is "large" you may not be stretched out enough. Keep in mind the walls of the vagina are elasticy. So if you don't have sex too often this may be why you're hurting and bleeding. I'd say if after you've try KY or whatnot, I'd go see your doctor if it still hurts.
Best of luck!
2007-02-19 19:46:32 · answer #2 · answered by CSF 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know the feeling....
My boyfriend of 3 years and I have recently been forced into a long-distance relationship, and we only see each other once a month - if that. And everytime he comes to see me the first time feels like THE first time all over again... And sometimes it bleeds a bit as well, but the next day I am usually fine again.
I guess us girls just kinda tighten up again a bit if we dont "stretch" regurarly...
2007-02-19 19:43:26 · answer #3 · answered by kiara_niniel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well my girlfriend and I had the same problem and the doc... told us that its just that she does not have sex often so when we do it tears her a little and that is what causes the bleeding! It does not matter if you have a "popped cherry" it still will happen.
2007-02-19 20:07:15 · answer #4 · answered by Jay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah I'd say you tighten up after that amount of time. You should have him go slower in the beginning, so you will get used to it again.
2007-02-19 19:46:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could have a cyst or something. You should make an appointment with your gynecologist.
2007-02-19 20:57:20 · answer #6 · answered by margarita 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should see a gyn this is NOT normal
2007-02-19 20:27:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋