my best friend is pregnet due to have her baby only she is getting induce she told me it was tuesday only she lied it was monday she went to get enduced. so i call her on monday to see how she is and her partner tells me they r in hospitail and she then tells me i can come in when her bf leaves for 2 hours so i do and i she openly admits to lieing to me r we actually best friends or is she using me ??
2007-02-19 11:20:12 · 5 answers · asked by katie r 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Just ask why she lied to you. Maybe she has some good reason. At the least just accpt that when thing of certian nature happens that she may not tell the truth. May still be friends but when things of this statute come up you will not be able to trust what she says.
2007-02-19 11:24:35 · answer #1 · answered by ronnny 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a private and stressful time for her. She is still your friend and needs you but there will be times you will need to let her pick the times. So much changes with a baby but believe me she'll be happier than ever to have you for a friend. Offer to help her with the baby sometimes. Allow her to have times alone with her baby and her boyfriend. There will be times when she does thigs with you and her boyfriend will feel left out, too. Maybe the three of you can talk about this situation together to avoid problems before they happen. Just be sure and give her some time alone to take care of the other people in her life. She'll love ya forever for it!
2007-02-19 19:46:52 · answer #2 · answered by Im Listening 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is she using you for?
She could be your best friend but that doesn't have to make you hers. Perhaps she has a friend that she feels closer to. It wasn't right for her to lie to you but perhaps she was trying to save your feelings. Just talk to her about it.
2007-02-19 19:26:07 · answer #3 · answered by the_little_one_said 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its quite obvious that she is avoiding you dose she owe you money or something ????????? id get rid of her love with friends like that who needs enemy's
2007-02-19 19:47:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's really not that serious!!! just asked why she lied to you.
2007-02-19 19:47:08 · answer #5 · answered by goddess 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋