2007-02-19 11:15:44 · 18 answers · asked by Christina Shischell 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
How do you know? You could be wrong and then ruin the relationship between your mum and dad just because you said something. I'd suggest you be careful about what you said about this unless you had proof.
2007-02-19 11:19:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know it may be hard but I dont think you should confront them. They are 2 adults and I'm sure your mom isnt stupid. Let them handle it. Trust me if it is happening there is only a certain amount of time before it will all come to the light. Your young enjoy being a kid and have fun because it dont last forever. Dont judge your parents in that way. Their may be other things going on that contributes to why things are the way the are. In due time you will figure it all out without confronting them.
2016-03-29 03:26:23 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really think that he's doing it then you need to be straight forward. Confront him! Just say "dad, we need to talk. I have a gut feeling that you are cheating on mom and I dont want to know the truth. I just want youto know that if you are, then it's not right. You're going to ruuin the relationship that our family has. If you're not, then I am sorry that I even asked you this." Tell him that he has to be a man and take care of his family and by messing around he's not doing his fatherly duties.
2007-02-19 11:20:05 · answer #3 · answered by Candi 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hm that is certainly not good. One suggestion would be to try to plan a lot of family events and try to get everyone involved. If he is indeed cheating on her, it may make it difficult for him to get away. Your mom may suspect something. He might get a subtle awakening and eventually realize his mistake and resolve it on his own. Depending what kind of person your dad is, i don't know how possible that might be. But try to strengthen their relationship and spend a lot time with your dad and talk about things like the right thing and honesty. But don't hint too much. I hope it works out okay, i knwo i'd be devistated if something happened with my parents.
2007-02-19 11:20:34 · answer #4 · answered by xraylemur 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well do stuff lke if u think he was cheating on her while he was on a business trip or something just keep asking him what he did during the business trip in front of ur mom so that if he acts weird she can see that, ur mom should know whats going on, but i'm not sure you would be the best person to tell her
2007-02-19 11:23:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You poor thing-I'm so sorry you're in this position. However, this is not YOUR problem. Chances are your mother knows or at least suspects deep down. It takes time for a woman to admit the truth to herself. What you can do is be very hyper-sensitive to your mom's moods. Go easy on her. If you sense that she's upset, be there to comfort her. She may open up to you.
I don't recommend telling her.
2007-02-19 11:20:02 · answer #6 · answered by Happy Wife 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you would be making a big mistake by saying anything to either of them. If he is cheating on her, she will eventually find out. I know that it is a terrible thing for you to know about, but I truly think that you should say nothing. You say you think....that should be your clue to say nothing...you could cause some real problems if it was not true. You need to respect your parents as you expect them to respect you...let them handle it. If it is true...it will come out, then they as adults will resolve it however they choose. Good Luck
2007-02-19 12:43:07 · answer #7 · answered by mamaonetexasone 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Coming from someone who has confronted her father about this type of issiue.. I didn't go to my mom about it.. It is not great to hear from your kid that your husband is cheating on you.. That is something they have to work out. What you need to do is to talk to your dad and find out.. give him your evidence. See where it goes from there..
2007-02-19 11:28:49 · answer #8 · answered by Missa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's really difficult. On one hand, their relationship really isn't any of your business. On the other, you certainly don't want to see your mother get hurt like that. If I were you, I'd probably keep it to myself unless I had solid proof, and if I did, I might write it out in a letter. I don't think I'd have the guts to give my mom that kind of news in person.
2007-02-19 11:20:57 · answer #9 · answered by Not Allie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow thats hard. i would start out going to your mom adn ask her if everythign is alright between them then go ask your dad. ask your dad if he thinks they might be on the ''rocks''. wehn u talk to your mom agian tell her you think your dad MIGHT be seeing someone else. Remind her it is none of your business, but you were concerned for her and didnt want her to get hurt. Tell her your reasons for why you think this to prove your point so that she doesnt shut you out. If this were me this is what i would do. I hope this is helpful adn hope whatever you decide works
2007-02-19 11:22:55 · answer #10 · answered by Jen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋