I want to find out about abused men.Do you have any oppinions about the topic?

Answer 1

Abuse is abuse and it doesn't matter who the person is that is getting abused, it is never right or good.

I know a man that was abused by his wife when they were married, it wasn't like he was a weakling or any thing. Hardly the problem, he wasn't into hitting women so he wouldn't hit her back.

He told me that she pushed him through a shower window. She is crazy, stone cold nut. He told me that he could never hit her or hurt her, he did finally leave her. He was a big guy, very buff, he worked out all the time, still he wouldn't hit her.

Any one who is being abused should get out, it doesn't matter who it is, no one deserves to be hit or hurt ever!!!

Men that have been abused do not take it out on other women, most are great guys that were taught to treat a woman like she is special. So they don't hit or hurt or become pedophiles.

Answer 2

Your question is a bit strange.

Do you mean abused as gay MEN, or gay men who were abused as CHILDREN?

OK. last things first.....I'll try to answer both as best I can.

I had a recent boyfriend who thought he could get drunk, get angry and batter me.

First time I licked my wound, second time we liked OUR wounds and the third time THEY tended to his wounds in hospital.

He is now my ex, and now carries scars on his pretty face.

Now first things last.......

There I was, poor little innocent: 14 years-of-age.

I liked my teacher and he liked me......he was 24....so not really knowing any better, I flirted with him all the time.

One day, he held me back after class and said, "You musn't behave like this, because if anything was to happen between us, I could get into serious trouble."

So I looked at him silently for a while, and then said, "But only if anyone KNEW about it, and I would never, ever tell anyone."

At the age of 22, I split with my first boyfriend due to circumstances more than anything else. It had lasted EIGHT YEARS and had been legal for just one of them.

I adored him, I loved him, he taught me how to be young, gay and happy and also, how to have self-respect in an often hostile world.

In fact, he was easily the best thing that ever happened to me.

Until the day he died rather prematurely and tragically, we had remained the best of friends, and at the age of 57, I still miss him.

I wonder what the politically correct brigade would make of that today?

Could they....would they understand, if I told them how wholesome, beneficial and beautiful it was?

Was that the sort of answer you wanted or expected?

Answer 3

I'm not entirely sure of what you are asking? Do you mean as in statistics, men abused by wives or partners? In case, an interesting question.
I'm sure that there is a lot of domestic violence, not only towards women, but also towards men, both physically and probably most common, mentally by wives. I suppose there aren't any crisis centres from men, like there are for women? If there are, maybe you could get in touch with one of them? I'm sorry, but I don't have an answer to your question.

Answer 4

You are asking a little bit of an insensitive question about a sensitive topic. If you want to find out more then go out and speak to some - there are plenty around. If you want to ask a question on here you'll need to be a bit more specific. Otherwise you'll get loads of dumb answers!

Answer 5

If your meaning abused by a women , I think he is well within his rights to defend his self with appropriate force.

Answer 6

depends what you want to know for. r u going to date one, ask one to sit your kids, want to know what they are like? most men don't talk about their abusive backgrounds...it can cause serious personality changes, mood swings, temper tantrums, controlling behaviour, compulsive lying, domestic abuse with man or woman, an inability to attach emotionally, criminal behaviour, and worst case scenario.....peadophillia in one in nine men. some guys externalise and take it out on their spouse, other internalise and harm themselves through addictitives behaviours. some attemp suicide, some hear voices because of memorial replay of abusive situations, some get psychotic paranoia/schizophrenia.....the list of possible effects is endless. narrow your search criteria and i'll try and be more specific.

Answer 7

Why ? What are your reasons for asking, that could alter the answer

Answer 8

Yes, I think alot of people use it as a reason to "accuse people of being gay." And I won't answer your question for that reason! You have 96 points, so this is your first question, most likely meaning your hiding your true identity or Yahoo! has deleted your old account as a possible Basher.

Answer 9

Suggest you go back to your doc or start taking the medication again especially if you are getting excited by listening to such stories.

Answer 10

sometimes men are abused