I think you should tell your parents that u are pregnant and not get the abortion cause when u tell your parents they are going to be very suppotive of you and your seed. And they probadly will help u out. that person is right u dont have to answer to no one but god but, god does not approve of abortions thats murder. you are taking a life. just make the right decision and not the wrong one.
2007-02-19 11:18:50
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answered by Anonymous
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Ok heres what happens in NC where I went. You go in they take your blood and urine. They talk to you about birth control. They will explain the process to yu there but I will tell you here also. You go to a room and take off yu pants and panties. They will come in and do a sonagram to see how far along you are and where the fetus is located. The sonangram may stay on you belly the whole time so the dr. can make sure he or she gets the fetus. They gave me a shot of numbing med but it doesnt help much. I also opted for the laughing gas to help make me a little more out of it and if they have tht option I highly reccomend it that helped alot. IT DOES HURT!! But the longer you wait the more it hurts. I had mine done at 5 weeks. They will give you some antibiodics and pain medication. Its over in like 5 min. once the dr. comes into the room. I dont reccomend getting an abortion unless you have to. Make sure you have lots of tissues ready cause you will cry about what you did and you may get epressed. I did alot. But if you do it just remember this nobody but God can judge you!! Dont let the people who will put bad things on here hurt your feeling cause they dont know you situation!! Just think long and hard about it because I think about it everyday and it really does hurt mentally and physically. I am sure in the end yu will make the right decision. Tell your parents about the pregnancy befre you have an abortion you will need their love and support to make this very large decision. Good Luck to you whatever you decide and I will say a little prayer for God to help you with peace and comfort no matter what you choose. God bless sweetie.
P.S. If you do hve an abortion you will not go to hell if anybody tell you that they are just stupid God is very forgiving and understanding.
2007-02-19 10:11:44
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answered by Anonymous
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Here are descriptions of abortion "techniques":
http://www.teenbreaks.com/abortion/whatisabortion.cfm
http://abort73.com/HTML/I-A-3-techniques.html
In a standard suction abortion, the cervix is first forceably dilated by the abortionist. Because the cervix is tightly closed to protect the baby, this can result in tearing and permanent damage. Then, a suction tube with a sharp tip is inserted into the womb, and a suction machine (approximately 30 times more powerful than a vacuum) is turned on. The baby is torn into pieces and sucked through the tube. This is known as a "blind procedure." The abortionist cannot see what he is doing and may puncture the uterus, bowel, or bladder. Next, the abortionist inserts a loop-shaped steel knife called a curette into the womb and scrapes out any remaining pieces of the placenta and baby. As you might imagine, this is very painful. You can read stories from women who aborted babies here:
http://abortiontv.com/Words/truestoriesfrom-mothers.htm
http://www.abort73.com/HTML/I-G-2-testimony.html
http://www.teenbreaks.com/abortion/girlswhoaborted.cfm
and see photos of abortions in progress here:
http://cbrinfo.org/Resources/inProgress.html
and view a video of an abortion in progress here:
http://cbrinfo.org
Someone here mentioned the "abortion pill," but you should know that at least 11 women have died so far after taking this pill:
http://www.lifeissues.org/ru486/deaths.htm
http://www.nrlc.org/Factsheets/FS15_pilldanger.pdf
One of the women who died was 18-year-old Holly Patterson in California. She went to a Planned Parenthood facility, and after she took the pills and went through painful contractions and heavy bleeding, parts of the baby were still left inside her. They caused a systematic infection which killed her.
Here is more information that you really need to see:
Photos and Video of Abortions, Including 1st Trimester Abortions:
http://www.cbrinfo.org/Resources/pictures.html
http://www.abort73.com/HTML/I-A-4-video.html
Photos and Facts About Prenatal Development:
http://www.justthefacts.org/clar.asp
http://www.abort73.com/HTML/I-A-2-prenatal.html
http://www.studentsforlife.uct.ac.za/foetal%20dev%20photos.html
More Abortion Risks:
http://www.teenbreaks.com/abortion/complicationsgirls.cfm
http://afterabortion.info/complic.html
http://www.abortionfacts.com/reardon/effect_of_abortion.asp
More Abortion Deaths:
http://www.lifedynamics.com/Pro-life_Group/Pro-choice_Women
http://www.afterabortion.info/news/abortiondeaths.html
Free, Confidential Pregnancy Help (including referrals for financial, medical, legal, and housing assistance; free pregnancy tests and ultrasounds; free maternity and baby supplies; pregnancy, parenting, and adoption information; counseling and emotional support):
http://www.optionline.org/advantage.asp
http://www.heartbeatinternational.org/worldwide_directory.asp
Support for Pregnant Teens:
http://standupgirl.com/site/index.php
Advice on Telling Parents About a Pregnancy:
http://lifehouse.glorifyjesus.com/questions/pregnancy/tellingparents.html
You do NOT have to abort your baby. If you need help, calling 1-800-848-LOVE or call 1-800-395-HELP to find a crisis pregnancy center near you.
2007-02-19 13:18:31
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answered by Just the Facts 2
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You are going to get burned and insulted with the question you just asked, but I am going to tell you what I do know. My friend and brothers gf had to get one. My friend had actually got it in a pill form. SHe had to go one day and then a week later. She had a VERY painful period. She couldn't even walk. My brother's girlfriend did that scrape and suck. They go inside you and try to dig and scrape the baby out of you then they go back in and suck whatever is left in there, out. Sounds disgusting and painful and guess what, IT IS! Look it up online. Honestly, I am prochoice. and do what you want, but no matter which way you do it, you will be in horrible pain. If you do not think you can handle that kind of pain, or the regret, then dont do it, give your baby up for adoption. If not then call the closest Planned Parenthood (or any teen clinic) and they will help ya out there. Good luck. And REmember dont let ANYBODY make you feel bad about YOUR choice. It is your body, your mind, your decison. You do what is right for YOU, not what everyone says you should do. Take care
2007-02-19 09:56:29
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answered by mrs.russell 7
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Call your local clinic. They will make you watch a video befor they do it. I think they use a speculum (like a pap smear) and then a suction tube. Most clinics will give you a shot to make you out of it. I could be totally wronge. But call and talk to somebody first. Make sure this is the right move for you. I've been there- its an extremely hard thing to do. Good luck
2007-02-19 09:51:52
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answered by Kristi 2
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Im not really sure of the process but I wanted to tell you good luck. It must be a very difficult time for you. There are probably plenty of people reading this question like myself who are trying to conceive but please try not to get down if you get negative replies. It is your choice and if you think you are making the right one for you that is the bottom line.
2007-02-19 11:53:26
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answered by Mrs Adams 4
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