2007-02-19 09:28:34 · 8 answers · asked by Adam B 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Because when you love someone deeply and truly, you invest a great deal of your psychic energy in them. They have an active role in your life, they are part of the decisions you make, you think about them often, and many things remind you of that person. When they are gone, the memories remain, and you miss the things that you did together. The more you loved that person, and the longer you had been together, the harder the loss is. And there is no easy cure. Time helps, so does keeping oneself busy, but you also have to give yourself time to grieve.
2007-02-19 09:32:32 · answer #1 · answered by old lady 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You know it is always hard when you have shared more or less everything with this one person it is almost like you have breathed into each other and became one, sharing everything, and not holding back, and knowing all about each other inside and out, and we feel that our heart cannot stand the pain, and it feels like it is breaking, but most of the time it is because our hearts are overflowing with unstoppable love for this person, which is the hardest thing to do when we lose them. I lost my best friend, my rock, my confidant, and some days all i want to do is curl up and die, but i know this is not what they would have wanted, and some days i just cannot stop the pain i feel....but what?.....life goes on my friend.
2007-02-19 09:37:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I lost my dad two years ago when I was fifteen... I then lost three aunts and two grandparents the following year...
I was mainly responsible for my dad's death... It was mine and my mother's responsibility to pull the plug... he had extensive brain damage.. and would never be normal again...
I feel responsible... I never got to say goodbye... It was the weekend before that he helped me with a project for school.. and then he was gone the day after....
I feel like things wont be the same again.. and It has been two years since then.. I have this big hole in my chest and it cant be filled...
I guess you feel that you could have changed things and that you need to... And now that it is done with you feel bad that you didnt....
I know I do...
2007-02-19 09:42:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you feel as if you have lost a part of yourself. You identify much of who you are with this person, because you love the qualities they have.
To move forward, it helps to simply appreciate the good things that the person brought to your life and learn from the experience. Think back with love...nothing else. It will help you to heal.
2007-02-20 09:42:40 · answer #4 · answered by aniello_napolitano2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think cuz u loved that person so much it hurts 2 move on. u have 2 take it 1 day at a time.
2007-02-19 09:31:54 · answer #5 · answered by stefstudy 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Because it's hard to think about not seeing that person anymore.
2007-02-19 09:36:19 · answer #6 · answered by First Lady 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
... because you loved them? Honestly, what kind of person is okay with losing someone they're in love with?
2007-02-19 09:32:40 · answer #7 · answered by Not Allie 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
good question. i hope someday i get over the one i lost two years ago.
2007-02-19 09:44:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋