Is it wrong to be with a woman that is only a few years younger then your Mom?

Question

I recently “got to know some one” that happen to be an older woman. I thought she was maybe early to mid 30’s. I’m mid 20’s. I found out that she was late 40’s and old enough to maybe be my Mom. I don’t plan on getting married or having children but she makes really good money and owns her own business. I make good money as well. Not to brag, but last year I made about 56K. She makes a lot more then me. She said that she would like us to “hanging out”. I know this will never really go any farther than “hanging out” and “getting to know each other”. Plus if you seen her you would never guess her age. Trust me on that. Also for the one's that say ewww, I have been told that I'm good looking and I'm 6'1" 210 and go to the gym five times a week. But is it wrong to be with some one that is only a few years younger then my Mom?

Answer 1

No way buddy...she will probably rock your world. Learn things from her and enjoy it...she won't be the whiny, needy, jealous wench most girls your age are.

Answer 2

OK Eric this is coming from a woman that is 12 yrs older then her boyfriend, he is in his mid twenties like you. His family couldn't deal with us at first & were down right cruel but after several years they are lets say decent to me. So #1 your older gal pal will have to understand that with dating and meeting your family this may be a huge issue. ALSO you must be on the same page. Lets face it you have plenty of time to play the field and gather up life experiences before you settle down. She has to understand that there will be no long term future with her. If things get serious this is a discussion that you will have to have. However she may very well be like myself.... not interested in marrying and or having children and just looking to have a great time,with a great guy that is mature and refreshing unlike guys our age. This is totally what I have and for now its working out well. She can teach you a lot (and I don't mean just sexually). So as long as you are both on the same page and it doesn't become a dependency issue I say go for it and have fun. Yes us older, experienced women can be totally hot, so if your friends say eewww- they are just either just ignorant, meaning uninformed or possibly shallow or just down right jealous.
Good luck and have FUN!!

Answer 3

i'm 38, datimg a guy who's fifty six, yet my father and mom are seventy 3. that is diverse. a minimum of the guy is youthful adequate to be my father and mom' son. Your situatioin is cheesy. i've got self assurance that as quickly as a pair has a huge age distinction, the youngest could be a minimum of 30. you're only a infant.

Answer 4

Look at Demi Moore, some older women like a younger man, because the older men wear out to fast!

Answer 5

SWEET! Go for it man! Don't be foolish. Let this woman show you a few things. You'll learn quickly that a woman doesn't even begin to know what sexy is until she's at least 40.

Enjoy!

Answer 6

yes it is wrong and if u really want to learn sth from her cuz she is older than u .u can ask ur mom she is at the same age as her , right?

Answer 7

i really dont c anything wrong with it. age is only a number it is how u feel about the person. but dont get me wrong it does matter when u r a minor

Answer 8

Yes it is... It is immorally wrong and unacceptable. I am sure you can find a girl in your age-range... it may take some time but believe there is somebody who is for you

Answer 9

Wear a rain coat.

Answer 10

i think it would be kinda creepy, but thier is no limit on true love