Why do men fancy men ?

Question

Don't get me wrong i have no problems with Gay men i aich actually really admire them because they just don't care wot ppl think which is great. However i just don't see wot the attraction?

Plus the fact that most think that it's ok to talk about there sex life's which is obviously very different from a heterosexual persons sex life and all it does is conjure up painful thoughts

I just don't understand the Bum Fun part i just can't understand why ppl wot put them selfs through that!!

Listen ppl i understand that it's preference and that's cool but it's natural for men and women to have sex to procreate but for men and men to be doing it that's basically just you can not make child from entering from the back door

Men and men have sex just for fun or for love that's wot i mean

Answer 1

Men who fancy men?? i dont mean to offend anyone, but i just dont agree with the idea. It is good they dont care what others think, but i dont think its right.

Answer 2

Yeah, right, men and women have sex just to make babies, and not at all because they love each other or because sex feels good. Tell me another one.

Gays feel about each other the way straight men and women feel about each other. And when it comes to sex, they just don't have the same options, do they? If men had vaginas, I'm sure they'd rather use them, but then they wouldn't be men, would they?

And "most" don't "think that it's ok to talk about there sex life's", any more than straight people do. Watch those generalities. It's just that what we think and feel is so taboo in the majority of society that we rarely get to share our experiences, except here anonymously on the Internet.

Answer 3

There is no straight answer to explain what it is about a man another gay/bi man likes, as it varies from person to person. Like with heterosexual relationships, some people go for looks and others personality.

I personally don't understand how some males like hairy males. It doesn't mean I think its wrong - I just think "well, it must be possible for someone to fancy a hairy male because they do," as well as understanding that everyone has a different sphere of attraction.

Homosexuals and heterosexuals, irrespective of whether they go for looks or personality, all have the one thing in common that they fancy a particular gender. Bisexuals fancy members of both sexes, and some reason along the idea of "its not the gender which I like, its the person,".

So, in summary, you will never understand how its possible - you just have to think "it is possible,".

Answer 4

Why would gay men care what people think-do you care what people think of your heterosexuality?? the attraction is simply that they are homosexual,so by definition they are attracted to other men!
Don't you talk about sex with your friends?-why would it be any different for gay men-if you don't like it,don't listen.To be perfectly honest as a gay woman I am baffled about the appeal of straight sex but that's just a personal perspective and I think everyone should enjoy life the way they were made to!!It isn't just gay men who engage in anal sex-straight couples do to-check out any adult toy catalogue & you'll find toys for women to anally pleasure their man-that's where the male G-spot is!

Answer 5

You seem to think it`s about choice like people choose to be gay this is why you question is silly. I am straight and don`t fancy men at all but i wish all other men were gay so i could choice any women i wanted homophobic men get aroused by gay images thats why they get angry as they can`t accept what they are. I have no issue as many men say this then want to do the girlfriends up the bum. Ps answer my BDSM question folks

Answer 6

First, thats like asking why a girl like guys butt and why straight guys like breasts. People can try to explain it but it really all comes down to genetics.

I think it can be sickening for a straight person to hear a gay guy talk about his sex life because he's genetically been programmed to find gay sex distasteful. It's just like when someone talks about how great drinking root beer is, your body convulses when you even smell root beer.

I don't think there's anything wrong with not liking gay sex and finding it repulsive if it's a natural dislike. Some people in society think you should repress your discust with it, but I think that would be you not being yourself. Maybe, just try not to be around when people talk about it. Or hear what they say, but don't disrespect their attraction.

Answer 7

Not all gay men constantly talk about their sex live, or impose their sexuality on others. I know a lot of gay men who have more class then that. Regarding a mans desire for a man, its the same way heterosexual men desire women. Its as simple as that.

Answer 8

OK LOOK YOU LIKE GIRLS AND THINK THEY'R EITHER CUTE OR HOT. WELL THATS WHAT GAY MEN THINK OF OTHER MEN. AND TO HAVE SEX IS AMAZING IF YOU RELAX WHEN THEY ENTER YOU. ASK A WOMAN WHY DO THEY LIKE SEX AND MOST WOULD SAY BECAUSE IT'S THE MOST PLEASURABLE THING THAT THEY HAVE DONE. THATS THE SAME FOR MEN. AND IF YOU STILL DON'T GET WHY THEY DO IT THEN HAVE SEX WITH ANOTHER MAN WITH YOU BEING ON THE BOTTOM.

Answer 9

Well, I'm not a gay man, of course, but from the ones that I know, the answers range from that they were born with the attraction to one who had something traumatic happen with a woman which made him never want to touch one again.

I think it's probably something inborn and just a matter of taste. The same way that every single woman probably doesn't appeal to you, every single man doesn't appeal to me. Some people are just attracted to certain people, and that's all there is to it.

I don't think we should put definitions on who is attracted to whom and why -- we should just accept that some people are attracted to some people, and others are attracted to others, and be happy that eventually everybody will find someone to love.

(Including us, hopefully!!)

Answer 10

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Answer 11

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