If you want to have sex with someone that wants it too but your mom says no (because i am still young the age is 16) what should i do and is it ok to be BI
2007-02-19 08:59:06 · 13 answers · asked by Megan L. Rinehart 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I think the reason why your mom doesn't want for you to have sex it's because you're too young and she's afraid you'll make bad decisions. If you really feel mature enough to do it and if you're aware of the consequences, I'd say go for it and enjoy it.
Take care.
2007-02-19 09:03:29 · answer #1 · answered by Guagui 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think being bi is fine, but i would suggest waiting a couple of years before sleeping with anyone of either gender, though. But in the meantime, you could date people of both genders to get an idea of what you want, what you're comfortable with, etc, so by the time you're ready to have sex, you'll not only have a better idea of your sexuality, but it'll be more special because you'd have a better chance of sharing that with the right person.
2007-02-19 17:10:09 · answer #2 · answered by Miss Understood 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hunny u should listen to your mom u r only 16 i know u think u know u think u r old enough to make your own decisions ive been there done that but i didnt have sex til i was 18. it is ok to be bi i am too. but more into the men. you dont want to chance getting pregnant at such a young age. i know there is birth control and condoms but they r not 100% affective. so please rethink about your decision about the sex cuz there is alot of risks that go with it.
2007-02-19 17:04:59 · answer #3 · answered by ruby 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you really want to have sex I suggest making sure you use a condom and even getting on birth control. You don't want to be one of those girls asking on here how they should tell their parents that they had sex and are now pregnant. As far as being bi I don't see anything wrong with it and I actually think that it is pretty fun. Good luck and be safe.
2007-02-19 17:04:34 · answer #4 · answered by Nyomi's Mommy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would suggest waiting a little longer. Your still young and there are so many STD's out there. Im not saying that 16 year olds dont have sex but i just feel that waiting is the best thing to do. Your young....save your self my dear =) You can do many other things other then just the three letter word...SEX
2007-02-19 17:04:24 · answer #5 · answered by Brittany B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's perfectly ok to be bi, especially at your age. You have all the time in the world to figure out what you want, so don't worry about that. Regarding sex, it's a lot of responsibility. You've gotta be really careful about getting STD's or an unwanted pregnancy.
Be careful darling...good luck.
2007-02-19 18:44:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Personally i think you should wait til the legal age. Its there to protect you for a reason. Sex is a big thing, think of all the consequences!!
And its ok to be bisexual, although many may disagree and be judgemental!!
2007-02-19 17:09:03 · answer #7 · answered by x_kimmy87_x 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to have sex is to make a baby which is a lot of responsibility and could be costly. ok to be bi but not accepted by a lot of people
2007-02-19 17:02:34 · answer #8 · answered by Red Sawx ® 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are underage, then no, do not have sex - especially considering your mother disagrees - plus, you could get the guy you had sex with into serious trouble with the law if you became pregnant.
2007-02-19 17:03:10 · answer #9 · answered by don't stop the music ♪ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you mom will never be ok with you having sex, that's how it works. :-)
yes of course it is ok to be bi. i personally am straight but c'mon, you love who you love.
about the sex, if you do it, be safe. don't be pressured into doing anything you're uncomfortable with.
haley
2007-02-19 17:03:55 · answer #10 · answered by haleysname 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋