Alright so i'm 20 years old and i'm looking to move to the seattle coming from the east coast with my partner. I dont have a college education but she does. I want to go to a trade school and get an associates degree. Not sure exactly what field i want to work in yet. My partner and I have been together for over a year. I feel confident that our relationship will stay strong as it is now. When ever i talk to my friends/family about my plans not many see it being a good idea. My partner is a college grad and is stressed about finding a job. I will be looking to work and soon attend school. Does it just seem like i'm day dreaming cause i really want this to happen but when it comes down to it will it work out just because i want it to? I just wish people would take me seriously...Any advice...
2007-02-19 08:56:36 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I will most likely have a job right away and she will most likely have a job by the time we are planning to go (july). So its just really rocky right now as far as plans go. despite that i still really want to go
2007-02-19 09:15:48 · update #1
make a plan, stick with the plan
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2007-02-23 08:35:12 · answer #1 · answered by Tegarst 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is the one with a college degree, and has no job lined up, why are you moving? It could be a tough move if neither of you will have income once you're there.
Re-evaluate all the reasons, all the outcomes you anticipate from this move. Are they realistic? What happens if X,Y or Z don't pan out?
2007-02-19 17:01:27 · answer #2 · answered by kent_shakespear 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you'd like to move, welcome to Seattle.
But what would you do if both of you have no job? There is no heaven place if there is no money.
2007-02-19 17:16:03 · answer #3 · answered by Henry 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It will work only if you REALLY want it to work. Best of luck!!
2007-02-19 17:01:25 · answer #4 · answered by Princess of Egypt 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everything depends on both of you.
2007-02-19 17:01:26 · answer #5 · answered by kasar777 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can do whatever you put your mind too.
2007-02-19 16:59:24 · answer #6 · answered by kingsgirl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You go, girl! You can do it!
2007-02-19 17:01:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋