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Question

Why are girls such b****'s???? HELP?
ok so you all know how middle school is filled w/ cliques so.. my clique (known as the candies) alll just broke out into a fight. I, the leader of the group, left because i was poed @ them all and so did my friend ashley and audrey. now michelle and kathrine and trisha are mad at ME! they say that i have something "coming my way" and that i should "watch my back"! what the crap could she be talkling about. i need serious answers. just dont answer if your gonna tell me to grow up.! below is a copy of her email to me lol


u think ur nice u hav got a nother thing coming BRAT
ha ha ha lol why do u think conor bla bla bla is going to hurt me
so mabe u should think about what clint said
I HAV A ? 4 U DO U EVEN KNOW WHY WE WERE GOING 2 KICK U OUT IF NOT THEN U HAV NOT LEARNED HOW TO TREAT A FRIEND. AND NO U SHOULDNT B THE BOSS IF ANYBODY IT SHOULD B ALAYNA OR SOME ONE THAT WAS THER B 4 U. AND NO U DONT GET EVERYTHING U FRIGGIN' WANT SO DONT EVEN BRING THAT UP. EVERY ONE THAT R JERK

conor- her bf
clint- my bf

Answer 1

Oh, God! Was I ever as stupid and young as you? Probably. You won't want to hear this, but yes. You are young and immature. Just a child worrying about stupid kid stuff. Keep your question on hand for a few years. You will laugh out loud when you re-read it in a few years.

Answer 2

I remember this kind of behavior from middle school. Unfortunately, cliques suck, but they are a reality.

Speaking from personal experience, they probably aren't serious. Their email is insulting and full of bombastic threats, but it's probably harmless. If they do pull something, it will probably be a stupid prank that reinforces their sense of self-worth and inability to deal with things that actually matter, like friendship or bridging differences. In the letter, they're insulting you by calling you a brat, someone who "don't get everything" and a jerk. They have mentioned the names of two guys. This may mean that they intend to manipulate the guys to play a part in their plot through peer pressure.

If you think they intend to do something serious, possibly harmful, then tell somebody. There's a reason that "ratting" on another person is frowned upon by cliques- because it works, and they can't do anything about it. So if this goes much further, and they send more threatening emails, then tell someone. It is to your advantage that these people have parents they have to be accountable to.

The email sounds like they are really immature. Who knows what they want by treating you the way they did.

Girls are not such b*****es. Just the girls that you used to hang out with! This also tends to get better with time .

Answer 3

well i am gonna tell you to grow up
but im gonna give some advice too

im in 8th grade and there arnt to many cliques in my school
just groups. dont think of your selfs as cliques cause thats what gets every one ticked off. next time at lunch look around at the other tables at the other groups. you could be like the "nerds" and not have any bf, any respect from the more popular groups, and get pushed around by every one, and have all the other kids thinking you havent gone through purberty yet (im not in that group and i have gone through puberty, dont take it the wrong way). or the jocks and have every one look at you thinking "omg keep the damn food in your mouth". or the emo kids and just sit there looking at every one else and have every one else thinking your freaks. the worst group to be in of all is the popular kids cause you already know not many people like you and that there gonna do what ever they can to make your life hell. (thats my group). but in 7th grade we all realized why be so seperated? so were friends with people from each group now and every thing that happened in the past is over with and its all good. depending on what grade your in your gonna be in highschool in a few years and your gonna meet a bunch of new people and your little cliques are going to be gone.

and dont worry the worst your friends will do to you is spread rumors and there not gonna matter cause your going to know there not ture.

Answer 4

I think people use the word " cliques" too loosely.Maybe leader responsibilities are a bit much for you at this time; why not let someone else take over...let someone else have to "watch their back". Being in a clique can be quite stressful...people say and do all kinds of things to rattle your cage (lying is a biggie) hoping you will cave in...

Answer 5

my friend has the exact same problem these girls want to beat her up cuz they think she is flirting with one of the girl's boyfriend. they threatened her for a long time but now they corneren her one day and told her to watch her back. my advice is to stay away from those girls they r not true friends. true friends would stay with u if they know something is going to happen to. if it gets serious then tell an adult.find some real friends that r true to u forver l8r

Answer 6

Well it's not you that needs to grow up, it's them. Just try to keep things cool between you. Ignore them. As soon as they realise that the crap they speak doesn't affect you, then they'll become embaressed and won't feel so tough. So just let them fire up, and sit back and watch them smoke.. and smile =)

Answer 7

Shes saying that something bad is going to happen to you.watch your back.I look at it this way when i was that in middle school if you threaten someone you better be able to back that threat. Be careful tell your parents . be cause if something does happen they no who to question first

Answer 8

I think its just another arguement, im in middle school myself, and i would just apologise and make up instead of having a massive arguement over it and stuff, if you sit down make up then you can go back to normal, if you continue it...it might get nasty and someone will get hurt.....

Answer 9

WOW its not you that has to grow up its them. you need to get some new frends. because all your gonna get is hurt. i had frends that didn't wanna be my frends anymore. they said that its because i was a b**** to them. but i only had really bad headaches and they didn't believe me.
so im tryin to say that if they were your tru frends then they wouldn't want to kick you outa your clique for something like that

Answer 10

You need to really stop focusing on this type of friendships. And focus on your education. Ignore this threats unless they become greater, then involve your parents.