I really screwed up with the girl a like. I didn't realize at the time how strong I was coming on to her. I realize now that I was moving way to fast, and kinda freaked her out. She thought I was obsessed with her, or was trying to push her into something, and started to avoid me completely. For the last month, I backed off and didn't even try to talk to her. I just gave her space w/o me. The other night I talked to her for the first time in about a month. It was on instant messenger, and was a very brief conversation about school, however, she didn't ignore me, block me, or seem upset, which is more than I can say for a month ago. Also, I ended the conversation not her. I think I'm at least headed in the right direction. My question is, how do I keep it up w/o scaring her again? Like how often should I talk to her, Should I try talking in person yet, or give it more time? etc? Any other advice would be appreciated. I don't want to screw it up again!
2007-02-19 08:41:30 · 2 answers · asked by Ed L 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
i am a girl i would know talk to her even if it is emabarrasing (in person) take it slow with her let her know ur sorry and that u will try to make the relationship better and that u will take it slower
2007-02-19 08:47:35 · answer #1 · answered by lexi b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Boat with no motor heading for the falls. Or that canoe middle of the lake. Meaning I been there and cannot get going so I know what your up against. I wish I could get consuling b/c I a recent girl not on computer or so and the other I see time time when I am up-town & on instant messaging. Now feeling in hell with no consuling!!
2007-02-19 16:56:50 · answer #2 · answered by David H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋