ok here the thing...
i have this friend of mine who HATES this girl(they used to be friends). and my friend gets mad at me for like hanging out with and doing other things with the girl that she hates. she just gets mad at me for being friends with her. and there is a concert that i invited the girl that she hates(we are friends) too and now shes all mad and stuff at me for doing so.
i dont know what to do because it seems like she is telling me who to hang out with and who not to. UUH. and its really just making me mad.
(and the friend who hates the other girl moved away but we are still friends)
2007-02-19 08:39:19 · 8 answers · asked by suppppppppppp♥ 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
just tell her that u are her friend and u are allowed to have other friends, and that you arenot betraing her or saying anyting bad to the girl she hates, so just becuase she doens't like this girl adn u have nothing against her, don't m,ake the girl a bad person.;
2007-02-19 08:44:38 · answer #1 · answered by Loco 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be your own person and don't let anyone tell you who to hang out with or anything like that. I think you know deep down what the answer really is. If you have a friend that other people don't like and you stop being friends with her because of that then you are just as shallow as those people. If this girl can't be your friend because she "hates" this girl you are friends with then she isn't being a real friend. Real friends encourage each other and support each others' decisions. This girl is trying to tell you what to do and who to be friends with and if you don't then she is going to get mad at you, then she only your friend conditionally. Be friends with people who you want to be friends with and don't let other people tell you what to do, except your parents until you are 18. Be a kid and have fun with your life when it is appropriate. Get rid of this girl who acts mad all the time because you hang out with someone she hates. Good Luck with this soap opera.
2007-02-19 16:50:58 · answer #2 · answered by miseryluvscompany 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her to grow up and get past it because you are your own person and just might have different friends and interests than she does. That's what makes you 2 people.
2007-02-19 16:44:55 · answer #3 · answered by Dr. J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i know how it feels to have a friend like that. it sucks i know. but just tell her that you can make up your own choices, and that she cant controll who you hang out with. if you have fun with someone, she cant stop it. if this keeps happening, just drop her. i know it sounds harsh, but if shes really a friend, she'll apologize and come back to being your friend. somtimes a little harshness can make a friend realiz something.hope everything goes well.
2007-02-19 16:51:34 · answer #4 · answered by robotloserr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't Think that she is really a friend if she is telling you who you can hang out with or not so its your decision
2007-02-19 16:51:28 · answer #5 · answered by courtney 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is not a real friend if she is trying to tell u who to hang out with
2007-02-19 16:43:35 · answer #6 · answered by rebel5689 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that girl has no reason to hate somebody, and she should not have control of who you hang out with, apparantly she is not a good friend so say goodbye to that control-freak.
2007-02-19 16:44:37 · answer #7 · answered by ~Soul Socks~ aka <Spiderwebs& 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm, maybe you should tell her that theres nothing she can do about it, your going to make your own choices...shes acting ridiculous! Good Luck
2007-02-19 16:42:59 · answer #8 · answered by sarajanicew 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋