i have been going out with my gf for about 3 months....we're both 21.
today we just started talking about things like past relationships. so she started to tell me about how she slept with a girl when she was still in hs, she was about 17. this has really freaked me out.....why would she do that!? is she bi....or is this normal!!!?
2007-02-19 08:32:15 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I think so
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2007-02-23 08:29:17 · answer #1 · answered by Tegarst 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she was just experimenting. Why would you freak out? Most guys get off on the idea of two girls together. Open your mind a little bit. She's with YOU now, so why should it matter what she did in the past?
2007-02-19 08:37:29 · answer #2 · answered by *Cara* 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
She could be bisexual but I also know a lot of girls that experimented a lot more with their sexuality than guys did growing up. Girls tend to be (from what I've seen) a lot more open to possibilities and not so squeamish about finding that stuff out. I'd say it's pretty normal to experiment. Most of my friends have a story or two.
Worry about it if she tells you she doesn't want to be with you anymore.
2007-02-19 08:51:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she was confused about her sexuality and was experimenting. She was 17. People do all kinds of things when they're 17 because they're just discovering who they are and trying to find their identity,and everything. It doesn't mean she's still into girls,though, but even if she was, she's obviously into guys too because she's with you. And as long as she's into you, that should be all that really matters.
2007-02-19 09:00:39 · answer #4 · answered by Miss Understood 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's completely normal. I'm in high school and I have messed around with girls before. But, I am not bisexual. I'm not attracted to girls or want to have a relationship with one. I just like to change things up every once in a while and explore different things. It's strictly just for fun. Plus, girls know how girls like it. Also, she might have been drunk, and that is completely normal too.
2007-02-19 12:37:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude you got to think about she was 17 and she was in HS everybody as done crazy stuff in HS but even if she is you dont need to change your feelings towards her cause she hadnt done anything wrong she just wanted to explore. just be there for her when she needs you.
2007-02-19 11:44:56 · answer #6 · answered by muscle69 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is completly normal. Yes she could be bi but she could also have been experimenting. But why would you freak out about that?? There is nothing wrong with being bi.
2007-02-19 08:44:30 · answer #7 · answered by M&M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so you don't like it that you g/f slept w/ some in hs but suppose it was ok 4 you do that. It sound alittle one sided to me
2007-02-22 11:14:04 · answer #8 · answered by TIGGER 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You lucky mutha phucker!
2007-02-19 08:38:24 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
maybe shes trying to freak you out...........im kidding........ or yea she could be bi........whats wrong with that!!
2007-02-19 08:36:11 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋