This question is for soul doctor or any body who can answer. I am 34 year old single man.?

Question

Could you please advise me a homeo remedy for the following :-
lack of self esteem,confidence,courage,will power,
cowardice,
shyness,
anxiety,
want to please everybody,
can not speak to girls for the purpose of dating/ mating,
inferiority complex,
can not open up and broaden my horizons,

Thanks

yousee

Answer 1

You don't need a placrbo pill! You need a bit of assertiveness training. Try going to an evening class. It's a good way to meet people, it gives you many possible conversation openers and it will give you a wider social circle to meet a lovely lady who will also help you deal with these problems.

I hate cheesy quotes but "nothing ventured nothing gained" should be your mantra!

Write a list of 15 things you like about yourself. Don't give in if they don't come to you straight away. Just fill the list in, pin it up and think these are the reasons someone will want to be with me.

If you have major problems with anxiety see your GP...

Good luck!

Answer 2

I used to be like that and it was due to lack of confidence although I used to put on an act as if I was very confident but was dying inside this was due to being told by my ex that I was useless. I have a great doctor and they helped me through it and it took a long time, the first thing I would say to anyone like this is you must like yourself first and little by little you will improve. It's not nice to feel like that and it does take time. I am a woman. You take care now and I wish you all the luck in the world you will and can do it. Good luck

Answer 3

Drink

Alcohol is an inhibitor

Let the inner lion loose

But don't do it all the time - lots of people use the experience of getting smashed it as a tool to explore odd and interesting recesses of personality and remember moods etc.

other than that - u are in no different a position to the rest of the world - they just cover up & bite the bullet anyway.

Lastly - for chrissake - lighten up & laugh at yourself occasionally!!!

Answer 4

Cant think of a homoeopathic remedy man, but after comin off drugs and alcohol, have been, prescribed fluoxetine from gp, was depressed, anxious, with lack of confidence etc, habits being my crux, so to speak, only having baby at 49 stopped me carrying on, if I had known the benefits of this drug, would have went 10yrs ago, another was cypromil, which also done well, girlfriend of 15 years said I have never been better, good luck with it man, one pill, BIG difference, what have you got to lose?, regards;

Answer 5

Go to Holland and Barret (health store) and pick up a book on Bach flower remedies. It lists all the remedies for each ailment.

Answer 6

Bear in mind that 80 year old umbrellas may still be very capable of shooting the odd bear. Secret is in the maintenance & practice, even on sunny days.

Answer 7

C'mon. Grow-up. Go find her. Log off. Go.

Answer 8

http://www.bach-flowers.co.uk/bach_flower_remedies.asp

there's a bit where you can do a self selection thing with your symptoms x

Answer 9

southern comfort and coke

Answer 10

Are we all not t the same ????????