It seems like every other girl has and all the guys love everybody else. I've never even had a boyfriend! It seems like everybody just assumes that all teenage girls should be beautiful. Why??
2007-02-19 08:04:37 · 27 answers · asked by michielev 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Don't worry about what everyone else is doing. Concentrate on making friends with guys and stop worrying. You have plenty of time for boyfriends.
2007-02-19 08:08:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell me about it I'm 14 and I am just like you. I feel like I'm not dateable but then I remember that I'm still young and shouldn't be worrying about stuff like that. Your friends may seem like it's great to have a boyfreind but remember that the good comes along with the bad and thats the reason why most relationships don't work out, is because it's alot to deal with mentally. You have to be mature enough to handle hugging,kissing and dating in general so mabye it is best to wait a while. Just enjoy being young. Don't worry, your not alone.
2007-02-19 09:20:37 · answer #2 · answered by gitsliveon24 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand where you are coming from until 15, I had never done any of those things either. I thought maybe something was wrong with me. I gave my heart to the first guy to show me attention. It was a big mistake. The guy Manipluated me, he made me think I could never do better, he took advantage of me in my sleep. I did get out of the relationship, I don't know why it seems guys don't pay attention to you, but I do want to warn you to be careful...
I found out years later that many men had tried to get me to pay attention I just didn't know it.
Its hard feeling like you aren't pretty. Be strong though, high school is a tough time and honestly not the best time for boys. You have so much you still need to learn about yourself, that adding a boy into the picture will make it really hard to figure out who you are. If you aren't already get active in school, join a few clubs.
2007-02-19 08:11:34 · answer #3 · answered by Brittainy 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
first, all women are beautiful princesses, and secondly guys are stupid, and a first kiss is ussually not the best, just try to dress nicer and maybe every time you say bye or hello to anyone start hugging them, its not weird, just pretend your hugging a family member. Start dancing with friends and get guys attention by just being yourself. Take an chance and ask a guy to dance, its fun because most guys can't dance anyways. Try not to be so timid and start to talk to guys, there normal don't worry, my sister didn't get her first kiss til she was 15, and she thought it was gross.
2007-02-19 08:35:14 · answer #4 · answered by Green Eyes 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
don't try to adjust your love life, or anything about you, according to society's standards. Look for a relationship instead of someone to be called 'boyfriend'. Just wait for someone to come along. If you haven't noticed, all the people who say they are going out break up after awhile. Don't put your heart into someone who you know isn't the right person for you just to have the ability to say you're dating someone. You'll be a lot happier if you let it handle itself. You'll find someone and really click with them, so just give it time.
2007-02-19 08:11:12 · answer #5 · answered by xraylemur 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
that's good because neither did I when I was 15. I was 17. kids are to much in a rush these days, instead of being kids they rather act and do adult things. If more kids were like you then I think there would not be such a std problem nor pregnancy problem among teenagers.
2007-02-19 08:09:46 · answer #6 · answered by ompie 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Girl don't worry, If i would have know then what i know now, i would be on a whole nother plain. Don't worry about boys, they will come. Just concentrate on your education and explore all of your options as a young adult and really learn yourself and what your interested in. When its time the right guy will come along and everything will work out , you'll see.
2007-02-19 08:14:54 · answer #7 · answered by This_Strong_Black_Woman!!!!!!! 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I wouldn't worry about it, I am 19 and havn't had a boyfriend or anything. The thing to remember is that most boys your age are dumb, and mostly a waste of time. Just be yourself, make friends and try enjoying life, eventually you'll find someone special.
2007-02-19 08:18:59 · answer #8 · answered by elvishbard 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Know what? There are some 18 and 20 year olds ( guys and girls) who say the same thing. There's not a single thing wrong with you... and someday, when then right guy comes along, ( and he will !!!) you won't have an ugly sexual past to have to try to explain.
2007-02-19 08:11:38 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
Don't feel bad. I was 21 before i ever dated/kissed. And i was 26 before i had a real relationship or lost my virginity, but i found someone who was definitely worth the wait because i couldn't imagine ever loving anyone else. Hopefully someday you'll find the same.
2007-02-19 08:22:29 · answer #10 · answered by Miss Understood 7 · 1⤊ 2⤋