2007-02-19 08:02:57 · 16 answers · asked by Eric 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Ok, CALM DOWN!! I recently “got to know some one” that happen to be an older woman. I thought she was maybe early to mid 30’s. I’m mid 20’s. I found out that she was mid 40’s and old enough to maybe be my Mom. I don’t plan on getting married or having children but she makes really good money and owns her own business. She said that she would like us to “hanging out”. I know this will never really go any farther than “hanging out” and “getting to know each other”. Plus if you seen her you would never guess her age trust me on that.
2007-02-19 08:26:28 · update #1
I don't look at age as anything. But I do look at it that she is 20 years closer to death so she will die befor you. A thought
2007-02-27 06:38:47 · answer #1 · answered by Amie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am 38, datimg a guy who is 56, but my parents are 73. That's different. At least the man is young enough to be my parents' son. Your situatioin is tacky. I feel that when a couple has a big age difference, the youngest should be at least 30. You're just a baby.
2007-02-27 01:34:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are really in your mid 20's then you are old enough to make this decision. I don't specifically think there is anything wrong with your relationship as long as she is not your boss. It is a little unconventional, but there is no law against it. (I hope no one accidentally thinks she IS your mom----that could be embarrassing for both of you)
2007-02-24 07:41:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it depends on your age and hers. Personally I dont understand the attraction but if you are of age why not go for it, I am sure you arent intending to marry her. And if you do well you can push her in her wheelchair and remove her teeth to clean them. Won't that be fun? And you can personally pick out her diapers. Its nice to have the personal touch dont you think? Just teasing you. Do what feels right to you but it wont last.
2007-02-19 08:11:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok Eric it is coming from a woman it quite is 12 yrs older then her boyfriend, he's in his mid Nineteen Twenties such as you. His kin could not take care of us in the previous each and every little thing & have been down suitable cruel yet after numerous years they are we could say first rate to me. So #a million your older gal chum will could understand that with dating and assembly your loved ones this could be a large subject. additionally you would be on the comparable internet site. shall we face it you have somewhat some time to play the sector and collect up existence stories in the previous you cool down. She has to understand that there will be no long term destiny together with her. If issues get severe it quite is a dialogue which you will could have. regardless of the undeniable fact that she could probable be like myself.... not attracted to marrying and or having infants and in simple terms attempting to have an spectacular time,with an spectacular guy it quite is mature and fresh in assessment to adult males our age. it is punctiliously what I even have and for now its determining nicely. she will coach you lots (and that i don't advise in simple terms sexually). so as long as you're the two on the comparable internet site and it does not grow to be a dependency subject I say decide for it and characteristic exciting. definite us older, experienced women persons could nicely be completely warm, so in the journey that your persons say eewww- they are in simple terms the two in simple terms ignorant, which potential uninformed or probable shallow or in simple terms down suitable jealous. sturdy luck and characteristic exciting!!
2016-12-17 13:58:28 · answer #5 · answered by spadafora 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u 2 like eachother and like hanging out who cares ur both adults right? u can make ur own choices and pick who u hang out people might look down on u for it but who cares about them their just lonely and bitter i think u should continue to see eachother!!! good luck i hope everything works out
2007-02-27 07:57:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it.....THose going ewwwww think about the ages of Terri Hatcher, Gwen Stephani, Sherl Crow and others before saying it's gross....
2007-02-19 08:12:28 · answer #7 · answered by conx-the-dots 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My other half is 13 years younger than me and we are very happy.
Dont worry about what other people say or think!
Dont be embarrassed, you are doing the right thing as long as you are both happy!
As long as you are both happy there is no problem......!
If other people have issues with it, they will come around i promise.
Just enjoy!!
2007-02-27 03:03:55 · answer #8 · answered by just me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats ok butr if its on the eye of others its not. so for me better find the same of your own age.
2007-02-26 11:40:11 · answer #9 · answered by leachim 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im guesing your like 17 no thats wrong sorry trie to fiend some one else.
2007-02-19 08:06:50 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋