Me and my 3 year long girlfriend seem to have been fine till like 8 months ago when financially we went under water over some issues and she was accordingly missing some attention she thought is was fine to try to find it else were,well she was caught,and happens to be the girl she was cheating with works with her...so many opportunitys she has to slip away i dont know what to do...
2007-02-19 07:58:23 · 8 answers · asked by daddydaking 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Sounds like she's more than curious and the time has passed to 'change her mind'. If she is cheating, you have to decide if you are willing to continue the relationship and under what conditions. If she refuses to stop seeing the woman, can you accept that? If she does stop seeing her, can you regain trust in her?
Bottom line, cheating is cheating whether it's with a man or a woman. Respond accordingly.
2007-02-19 08:05:48 · answer #1 · answered by eschampion 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm bi-curious, but my boyfriend knows this and he's understanding about it and even told me if i ever want to act on that, he'd let me as long as he knew about it. Of course, i could never actually do that (i'm happy just keeping my crush on Christina Aguilera) because i'd still see it as cheating,even if he doesn't (considering it's with a woman instead of another man and would be more for "self-exploration" than just sleeping with someone else for the sake of sleeping with someone else) But in your situation, since this is something that wasn't discussed earlier, even though it is with a girl, it's still considered cheating because it was behind your back. I do understand the need for attention,though,because sometimes my boyfriend's work seems to come before me and it is something that girls take very personally and can be pretty painful for us. And though i could never cheat on my man for spite because i feel ignored, i could almost understand why a woman would, but i still don't think it's justified or right. But anyway, i think the best thing would be for the 2 of you to just talk to each other and get all of these issues and feelings out and try to find some way to work things out because it would be a shame to lose a 3 year relationship. But if it comes down to it that you must, hopefully you could at least end it amicably
2007-02-19 16:46:45 · answer #2 · answered by Miss Understood 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, I don't get where the man comes into this question? If she's cheating, with another woman, I'd say she's a lesbian. What man are you talking about?
2007-02-19 16:15:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
To Late Cheating is cheating. Get out while the gettin's good.
2007-02-19 16:03:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe depends on the women...Ive been dating guys for 17 yrs of my life and I'm 20 now....with every guy Ive been with in the back of my mind Ive been thinking about girls and wanting to be with them...i think i was with guys to hide the fact i like girls so much. and I'm happy i swung the other way
2007-02-19 16:04:24 · answer #5 · answered by orange_crush_05 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It really depends on what that woman's mind let's her believe or do.
It is all up to the individual.
2007-02-19 16:02:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe shes bi
but being with a man would not make a lesbian 'cross over'
2007-02-19 16:11:15 · answer #7 · answered by NemotheFish 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Eschampio put about as well as anyone could
2007-02-19 16:16:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋