What are my options ? or do I have any?

Question

In late june my sons father and i had split apart due to many complications in our relationship it was a very very bad break up we were together for 4 1/2 years best freidns for 7 years... when we broke up we both told eachother we hated eachother and i told him i wished he would just fall off the face of the earth . a month later he got in a very bad accident where the driver died and he died too brought back i felt horrible and realized i still loved him I went out to see him at the hospital which is 1hour away i wasnt allowed in cause his family hates me for being white and cause we had a child out of wedlock so i was turned away 2 montsh later i tyed again and snuck in with my son which was nice got to see him told him im sorry and i love him he said the same and asked me to wait for him its been 5 montsh since the last time i seen or talked to him his family got a restraining order on me i want to know what my rights are how i can see him now that he is home i wana c him wth our

with our son ... i have friends thathave been updating me and they say he wants to see us and whatever but the thingis is that he suffers from brain damage he had a broken back and neck .. which seem to be back in order but i think he is still slow .. anyways is there anything i can do to see him .. can i cal teh police is there anything he can say or do to get them way from us he is 25 now and i just feel he has every right but i think some one needs to put it in his head that he has a choice that i dont think he knows ......about which is saying i do want my son and his mother here with me .... any suggestions .... please be serious this is a very touchy subject for me ... thank you god bless

Answer 1

i thought you said he died too.. lol??
and.. why do u call him "my son's father".. why dont they just say ex (my health teacher says that all the time too)

Answer 2

Well first off reading some of your other questions it seems like you fall for guys very quickly. Maybe you would be better of single for awhile, instead of trying to have a man in your life.

You didn't say where you ex is staying. Is he still in the hospital, or with his family? If is then you need to honor that restraining order and stay away unless you want to get into more trouble and cause more problems for yourself, your child, and your ex.

Answer 3

How old is this guy? If he is an adult then he can decide if he wants the restraining order or not. Your rights are since he is the father sue him for child care. What you need to do is sit down and talk to him and get your life, his life, and your kids life back on track. You need to look at what is best for your son or he will turn out to be as F*** up as you two are (no offense).

Answer 4

that is up to him. He needs to stand up for you. Where do you live at to where there's such racism. I live in WV and i don't think it's that bad here except for in the back woods where opossums play banjos. I feel bad for you. I once dated out of my race and everyone who I thought was my friends turned out not to be. I don't understand how the family got a restraining order against you. if he is able to be independant why doesn't he do something. You should talk to legal aid since you do have a child together. The interrest of the child has been forgotten by his side. Legal aid can help you because they are lawyers in YOUR state. I think they are free or low cost.

Good luck.

Answer 5

Umm how can he be dead and alive at the same time?

But that aside.. you really have no legal rights anway... You are an EX even if you were married yer still an X.. and an X is an X..

Answer 6

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Answer 7

Tell his family that he wants to see you too and they should all go f**k themselves and get a lawyer.