I live with my grandparents because my parents live abroad.They r controling my life although i'm 19 Y/old.I have to stay with them because they live near my university.I feel like i'm 5 around them,i think i'm in KG1 not college,they even watch me 24/7 every move i make,i have to ask them first or take their permition for everythink u can imagine,i don't have any privecy at home its like a jod for them or pass time because they r borred.I'm suferring inside ,confused and fed up i think some day i will die,or be driven to a mental hospital.The thing is i can't tell them anythink or argue with them,even my parents can't understand me or what i'm putting through every day since last year.I love them i do but there are limits.And ya they argue with me all the time,but i can't say whats on my mind because i have to respect them.I'm suffering believe me.I can't study anymore.I'm dieing inside.and i'm alone i don't even have friends exept classmates.please help,I'm depressed.
2007-02-19 07:33:02 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Figure out ways to spend more time out of the house. Say you're going to the library to study, going to the store, going shopping, found a volunteer position (whether you actually do or not), going to the park, going for a walk, anything! Just find ways to get out of their reach gradually and they will accept your independence more. Good luck, I hope this helped.
2007-02-19 07:45:35 · answer #1 · answered by Confused 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you are an adult now........MOVE OUT AND TAKE CARE OF YOURSELF! As long as you live under thier roof the can and will treat you like a child because children live at home and need cared for, adults move out and take care of themselves. It may be hard but it will work get a part-time job and find a room mate from the university I know its a big step but if you are really miserable and suffering then it is something that you can do to relieve the stress! Good luck.
2007-02-19 15:46:20 · answer #2 · answered by smoothazhoney 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why can't you move out...live in the dorms or an apartment. If moving out is out of the question you need to talk with them...be very blunt and tell them how you feel.
2007-02-19 15:47:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋