Okay, his name is Freddy.
So,,, his birthday was on February 11, but I was away at a cruise and I wasn't able to attend his party or give him his present. I finally returned from the cruise on February 17. I bought him a present which was an XXXX Large Family Guy T-shirt. So I call Freddy up, on the 17th and ask him if I can come over to his house, but he says it'd be better if I went on the 18th since he had to go to a wedding. Yesterday, I go to his house and I give him his shirt, and guess what!
He has the nerve, to curse me out and kick me out of his house after trying on his shirt. According to Freddy, he wears XXX Large not XXXX Large. So what! I wasn't trying to offend him or anyhting, but what could I do? I didn't want his shirt to be too small.. I feel like he's overreacting to this issue.
2007-02-19 07:23:06 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
He's acting like a total jerk. Can you believe he's leaving me messages still cursing me out and asking for me to apologize??!! Why should I apologize?! I was being a good friend, and it's the thought that counts.
2007-02-19 07:25:24 · update #1
P.S. I forgot to say I also bought him a Barnes and Noble gift card.
2007-02-19 07:26:06 · update #2
I have to say I think your friend has issues. I had a similar friend once. He started getting really nasty at one point and I finally said forget it after several attempts to find out what had gotten up his butt. Not worth the anguish. I you really care about him, go ahead and apologize and then find out what his beef is (no pun intended). Try and work it out. If not, find new friends. Lifes to short.
2007-02-19 07:30:16 · answer #1 · answered by The Syko Ward 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your friend is taking out his weight issue on you. He had it smack him in the face and he doesn't like it. All you did was guess ONE SIZE too big. Which may be the best most men have ever guessed for mothers, sisters, girlfriends, wifes etc...... Even women cant always GUESS the EXACT size of a friend or loved one. This "friend" needs to chill the F**k out and apologize to you. You can in fact call him and say that you are "sorry that his feeling were hurt, but you will not apologize for getting him a gift for his birthday especially with the way he threw a temper tantrum and ruined the point of a GIFT". He is acting like a spoiled brat and needs to be a MAN a cut the HISSY FIT.
2007-02-19 07:34:08 · answer #2 · answered by azwoman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow well hey at least its not the opposite problem. me and my best friend went out last night and our other freind whose battling an eating disorder called us up to hang out. so we did and it was evening and we both were really hungry sooo supposedly we were being "inconsiderate" when we decdied to go to wendy's and get some food cuz we were soo hungry. personally, we were gonna go to a restaurant Red Robin for all u can eat fries but w/e. some ppl just have issues. and seems like this person is that way too. i mean XXX and XXXX is prblyyyy aroudn the same i would image. at least they both are REALLYHUGE so who cares? if u cherish ur freindship, then id suggest u to apologize. but if u could do without the freindship and it reall doesnt mean that much to u then id say forget it and move on.
2007-02-19 07:29:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
think of of it this manner... top now, you are the nice and snug female on campus. some day you isn't. incredibly, you isn't. existence will kick you in the seat of the pants... stressful. what is going to you do? Who will you turn to? the folk who're remembered the main in extreme college are the folk who're the nicest to all people. as quickly as you graduate, you will see that that is no longer all approximately being component of the gang, having the favourite boyfriend, or the main popular pals. that is approximately being you. is this incredibly the guy you prefer to be? Will you be the only for my section to blame for making somebody cry themselves to sleep each evening? i've got form of been on your footwear, and all i can assist you to recognize is that when you develop into this individual, you are able to not bypass lower back. If she's a difficulty, then enable somebody else be the undesirable guy. handle her only as you do all people else. tell her that the mushy-feely stuff makes you uncomfortable. that would provide up the actual touch. have self assurance that for the period of existence, what you provide comes lower back to you. because of the fact it does. It incredibly does. think of roughly it. I applaud the reality which you do no longer prefer to be advise, yet what does it harm to make somebody experience somewhat greater particular?
2016-11-23 19:04:20 · answer #4 · answered by steffi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all. You should never buy an overweight person clothing. Unless u know they're exact size. And hes being paranoid. he should be thankful that he has a shirt at all. But u have to look at it from his side. If u were overweight. Would u want people to think your fatter than u already are?
2007-02-19 07:28:52 · answer #5 · answered by 1m@ h3@rT Br3@k3r 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with u, if i give my friends a shirt i usually get it a size bigger just in case it'd be too small. and if it ends up being to big i offer them to go and exchange it. He just may very well be used to people doing something to him to hurt him about his weight. Just try and talk to him in a calm matter and explain why u have him that size. If he gets over it i wouldn't buy him clothes anymore than hope this helped and good luck
2007-02-19 07:28:20 · answer #6 · answered by ashie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One he is not a friend to you. His attitude needs a reality check. I would rather my friend bought me a size larger than i wear. This way if the material shrinks it will fit perfectly. You should not apologies to him. A true friend would thank you for the gifts and ask you if he could change the size since it was a little larger than he would normally wear. Change your e-mil address and forget him.
2007-02-19 07:41:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hes probally just insecure with himself,
Appoligise,
And let him know that you didnt mean to offenend him.
Im sure being an XXXL isnt verry easy.
2007-02-19 07:28:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that he is over-reacting. I mean he should think of it that you thought of him to buy him a shirt and he should be proud.
I wouldn't worry about it.
2007-02-19 07:31:09 · answer #9 · answered by Boo8081 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He possibly is over-reacting - I mean sure if you bought him one that was several sizes over and obviously so then yeah, he could moan like this.
Don't suppose you kept your receipt so you can exchange it?
2007-02-19 07:28:07 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋