I consider myself bisexual (you could argue that I am bicurious and it would be tough for me to disagree), but I have yet to have my first sexual experience with a guy. I want to finally lose my virginity in that area with the right guy, but I am not ready for a relationship at this time because of the impending death of my mom (she has terminal cancer). Is it realistic that I could find a guy who would be willing to have a sort of "friends with benefits" deal until I am ready for a relationship, or should I just wait until I am ready for a relationship before I look for a guy?
2007-02-19 07:18:37 · 12 answers · asked by jasonbondshow 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Firstly, I am terribly sorry to hear about your mother.
That said, yes I think you can find someone who will be interested in friend with benefits. Make sure it is someone that you want for a friend though, because straight, gay, or bi -- friendships often last longer than relationships.
I will keep you in thought.
Kindest thoughts,
Reyn
believeinyou24@yahoo.com
2007-02-19 07:28:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to hear about your mom:-(
Waiting for the right guy and the right time is not a bad idea. But it's definitely realistic to find a guy willing to have a non-serious sexual relationship. Just be honest about what you want and don't forget that you may end up with more drama that you anticipated if one or the other of you decide you need more. Good luck.
2007-02-19 15:27:16 · answer #2 · answered by Spyder 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
First, I am so sorry about your mothers illness.That is a very tough situation.Keep the faith.
Your right it might not be the best time for you to have a relationship. I don't think that you could put all that should be put into a relationship right now.
If you are looking for sex and just sex, have you tried a bathhouse.Not sure where you are or if there is a bathouse in your town, but that is a good place to go for annomous sex.Just be prepared when you are there.Make sure you are safe.....using condoms for intercourse.This is your first time so intercourse might not be what you are looking for,but be careful if it is.
Bathhouses are relatively safe and can be alot of fun.So enjoy when you go but please play safe.
2007-02-19 15:29:30 · answer #3 · answered by Steve O 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
certainly be up front with the guys about what you want and some will be willing to help you . not all . i have met some guys that don't want the guilt of taking the prize but i myself think of it as a bit more work then i am used to but hey i am a hard worker.
if you need more help email me .
2007-02-19 15:23:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
First off, sorry about you Mom. I know how stressful that is.
Next, yes, you can find someone to hookup with. There are personal ads all over the place.
2007-02-19 15:34:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get ready, almost all your going to find for a while will be guys that want sex without relationships, so you should be in luck.
http://www.gayuniverse.com/
Yahoo! dating
etc.
2007-02-19 16:14:02 · answer #6 · answered by AdamKadmon 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hmmm? guys who just want sex with out a relationship. Where could you find such a man? I don't think you should have a problem.
2007-02-19 15:25:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try craigslist in your area, just be careful, alot of sickos out there.
2007-02-19 15:22:39 · answer #8 · answered by Michael I 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry dude we are all interested in long-term relationships only.
It's fashionable and makes us look good to the homophobes.
2007-02-19 15:22:55 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 3⤋
Go to a country where prostitution's legal.
2007-02-19 15:22:40 · answer #10 · answered by !!joinCampaignforLiberty!! 4 · 0⤊ 3⤋