omg i have this annoying stalker!!! i cant get him off my freaking back!!!!! what shall i do?lots of people and my online freinds said to stab him wit a pencil he is a mamas boy so then she said make him cry, i dont know what i should do tho! do any of you people out ther help? he has a big big big crush on me since 1 grade im in high school now and now im really rejecting him alot scince he has a crush on my the guy i like wont talk to me at all
2007-02-19 07:16:11 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
First of all stabbing someone with a pencil isn't the best thing to do. I would just tell him that your not interested in him. At all! Ignore him. Pretend like he doesn't exist. Watch him and see if he backs down. when confronted most men will back off. If this doesn't work or you think your in any kind of danger then explain the problem to your parents. If they agree that you are in danger then you can call your school guidance councilor or the police. Whoever you think is most suitable for your problem. If necessary you can get a restraining order and he will go to jail if he bothers you again. Just think over it and decide what you think you should do. Good Luck :)
2007-02-19 07:28:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I used to have a stalker, but eventually I got rid of him (not by stabbing him with a pencil though). Here's what I did, I started changing the routes I'd take to class. I'd change the days I met with certain friends of mine( I didn't stop hanging out with them I just changed the schedule that I hung out with them) so my stalker wouldn't be able to meet me. He eventually took the hint and left me alone. If he is in one of your classes and you can't avoid him, I'm not exactly sure what you should do except maybe tell an adult about it (in case he gets dangerous or something).
2007-02-19 07:25:01 · answer #2 · answered by Sazziable 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is a true stalker that could be dangerous. Don't play with fire tell your parents and other people around you don't be alone and be very careful. This sounds innocent but I am sure some young girls that are dead now felt the same as you do now. Tell him if he does not leave you alone you are going to go to the police these things today are not to be taken lightly.
2007-02-19 07:21:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
a stalker? And you and he are both high school?
And you're tripped because "the boy you like" ain't talkin' to you?
Have a real good talk with your parents about seeing a good head doctor, or a smack at the back of your head.
2007-02-19 07:22:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him he really needs to stop. If it gets too bad and he won't stop, talk to a teacher or school counselor about it. They can help keep this guy away from you and keep him from harrassing you. You could also talk to your parents or his parents to make them aware of the situation. I think somebody, besides you, needs to sit down with this boy and make him understand it's not okay for him to keep bothering you.
2007-02-19 07:20:09 · answer #5 · answered by blue_girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm although this does sound a little bit over dramatised.. if its not then you do have a serious problem. You just need to tell him to back off and treat you as a friend or get out of your life for good.. and also tell your parent or guardian and see what they suggest.
2007-02-19 07:25:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg like me too!!! What I do is just like tell him straight up to back off and he sometimes does. But if he doesn't then you might need to tell a adult because like it could get serious. Like the guy who stalks me is like crazy so I went ahead and told a teacher and now he can't get near me.
So just go ahead and tell him to stop and if he doesn't
tell an adult
=]
2007-02-19 07:20:36 · answer #7 · answered by ety 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a restraining order on this guy!! Just because he kinda seems harmless and you don't think he'll hurt you doesn't mean he won't. If he has threatened you, take him to court. Whatever you do you need to stay away from you.
2007-02-19 07:35:37 · answer #8 · answered by Lola 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell someone that can make him stop, or get a restraining order. Or belittle him in front of the entire student body.
2007-02-19 07:19:41 · answer #9 · answered by kingshighway77 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you tell him to stop bugging you and if that does not work go with a threat. If he does not stop bugging you tell him you already have a boyfriend a have one of your friends get in the joke and tell him he does not have a chance with you.
2007-02-19 07:24:55 · answer #10 · answered by Taylor bowers 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋