I Dont Want To Be Her Friend!!!?

Question

My best friend and I do everything together but everytime im with her she always yells at me or insults me, or is just all around b!tchy to me. Ive talked to her so many times about it but she just turns it into something wrong that i did. I really just want to have a break for her or just not at all be her friend.

She thinks I have alot of money and she gets mad at me if I dont buy something for her.

Answer 1

Show her what you wrote, tell her she is making you feel aweful and then stop hanging out with her. It's as simple as that. You've tried talking it out before and that obviously hasn't worked so take some time off from her.

Answer 2

Good. You've come to the realization that the relationship is not good for you. Now you can just stop hanging out. It happens all the time, every day, everywhere.

It might be a little hard to spend time alone, but in the longrun you'll be totally fine.

There's really no point in spending your time with someone who just insults you, yells at you, and blames you for things.

Answer 3

Wow. I'd be honest with her if she doesn't change her bad behavior then you don't wish to be her friend anymore! Who wants to be associated with someone who acts like a fool and makes you feel like ****? The fact that she is using you is another problem. You should not let her take advantage of you. It seems to me like she has issues that she needs to deal with. You deserve to be around people who don't do those things to you. So, break things off with her slowly..stop calling, don't return her calls, ignore her..don't invite her out. She'll get the hint that you don't want to hang out with someone like that. She might then change her ways or not. It's up to you to not let her into your life if that's what you want. Do not give in. It's not really your problem that she acts the ways she acts. It's your own fault if you continue to go out with her.

Answer 4

Tell her what you think of her. She might say sorry, but if not you can do something. If she asks you if you want to go out to the mall or where ever you guys go, tell her no. Say no to everything she asks of you. She will probably forget about you and poof! she'll be gone.

Answer 5

I know the feeling. Just don't return her calls anymore, don't see her anymore, etc. Send her an e-mail or a text message or call her and say that you're breaking off the friendship. IDK....Something along those lines. :)

Answer 6

Tell her that you don't want to be her friend anymore,because she is making you feel like crap...she will prob try to apologize,and say that she will do better...but if you two had this conversation before than it is time to let it go,and move on...Change your number, avoid her, hang out w/ other friends...she'll catch the drift..

Answer 7

i know what you mean. i have someone thats the same way

cut down on things that you do together. dont answer her ims/calls/texts every time. then after a while, stop alltogether. hang out with other (nicer) friends. she should do the same

Answer 8

take it to a grown up!wow,shes going to far,but dont give up on her.i have a friend that likes to accuse me,but i dont accept it anymore.i let her drift her own course.maby you 2 need a little breathing room.try not to do everything to gether for a while-involve other friends,maby she'l be to embarrased to accuse you if other friends are there.good luck!

Answer 9

Don't worry..I've had a friend like her before too. I got soo fed up with it! I don't hangout with her anymore, but I'm still cordial. Try making other friends. Good luck.

Answer 10

if she's really u'r friend she should not be acting like that. so my advice to u is to tell her to change or your friendship is over. that kind of friend you don't need u can find a better friend than that. there's alot a people in this world that needs a friend like u or might want to be u'r true friend.