My friend blanca is starting to know one of my ex-boyfriends. She knows that he was a very special person to me...she told me she didn't care that she was still going to go @ with him...she hurt me but what can i do about it? HELP!!
2007-02-19 06:24:59 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You need to stop hanging around this girl, and move on with your life. If she was a real friend to you she wouldn't be trying to hurt you, and she would care a lot more about your feelings. There is really nothing you can do about this because she's going to do what she wants to, and this guy isn't your boyfriend anymore. Let this be a lesson learned. Don't trust anyone no matter who they are. If they let you down then take it as another lesson being taught. Don't let this bring you down. Let it make you stronger. Neither one of them is worth it. I know you feel betrayed and hurt right now, but trust me sweetie happier days are coming your way.
2007-02-19 06:31:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can forgive her. That is my best advice- also, talk to your ex. Let him know how you feel, without being angry or defensive. Be a friend to Blanca- she will eventually either become a good person, or get sick of you being kind and not mean, and go bother somone else.
2007-02-19 14:29:33 · answer #2 · answered by Kevin B 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would say that Blanca isn't really your friend. I would tell her that if she chooses to go out with him that you don't want to hear about it; if you continue to let her hang around you. If she insists on talking about their relationship then I think you should call the friendship quits.
2007-02-19 14:29:25 · answer #3 · answered by Jennifer U 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think people should be allowed to date who they want. Just because someone is an ex doesnt give you the right to dictate to them or others who they can or cant date. You do not get any kind of rights over them. There is no copyright ownership. He is a free agent to date who he wants. All these so called rules of who can or cant date exes is pure childishness. Get over your own ego.
2007-02-19 14:30:39 · answer #4 · answered by Dovahkiin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's nothing you can do to stop it. All you can do is either talk to her or leave her alone. Regardless if you talk to her or not if I was you I would leave her completely alone. I would say whats on my mind once and leave it like that. If it's through email, phone, or face to face. But after that last conversation I would have nothing to do wiht her. I would call her, talk to her. She's not a good friend at all. I'm sorry to hear this. Hope everything works out!!!!
2007-02-19 14:32:47 · answer #5 · answered by AE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she said she didnt care about your feelings toward this, then shes not a true and reliable friend. If theyre going to see each other, there's nothing u can do about it.
i know it hurts, but thats life. Some people are selfish a**holes. I say forgive her, but DON'T forget. there no point in wasting your time on her or him.
2007-02-19 14:30:23 · answer #6 · answered by nico 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she isnt a good friend. All mine know ex's are completly off limits and vice versa. Kick her to the curb and get friends that care.
2007-02-19 14:29:45 · answer #7 · answered by Becca24 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If that were me, Id leave her and forget about the boy. Try to move on. Apparently shes not that good of a friend if she did that to you. Why dont you try flirting with one of her ex's and see how she likes it then.
2007-02-19 14:35:15 · answer #8 · answered by Shes just a kid909 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, first off I wouldn't call her a friend. :( sorry...
But we choose what kind of people to surround ourselves with. I wouldn't choose her any longer. It may hurt now, but in time you will heal. Let her have your sloppy seconds. You don't need them anyway right....Keep positive, and good luck.
2007-02-19 14:32:05 · answer #9 · answered by Emily :) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
darling it looks like she doesn't love you that much if she can pick a boy over you! you got to show jhre your not moping over her anfd you know what a real friend is PUT HER OUT! itll be hardd and ive got to be honest ive done somethintg like that to my friend be4 but that was when i was stupid ive got a new best friendd but there are times that i miss her, i guess they say actions speak louder than wordds if she wants him let her have him kick her to the gutter shell rise from it and come back to you trust me!
2007-02-19 14:30:09 · answer #10 · answered by ...x...sxy ting...x... 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋