Ok so i am a teenager, now going through puberty and really hormonal. i watch gay porn sometimes and watch naked men sometimes. i also watch straight porn and naked women at the same time. Am i gay or straight. What do you think. This is really serious.
2007-02-19 06:17:48 · 10 answers · asked by blah 2 in Health ➔ Men's Health
You're normal. Most teenage boys go through the same thing now. The ones that don't will go through it as adults. It's perfectly normal, because you're still young. Your brain is in it's 'curious' state, and wants to known what both sexes are like. You'll known what you are later on in life. If you want to marry a woman later on, then you're straight. If you want to marry a man, then you're gay. And if you want to marry both, then you're bisexual.
Don't worry about it right now, okay? Nearly every teenage guy, including myself, is going through the same thing. Most guys, including myself, don't want to seem gay, so we don't talk about this when we're around other people. So like I said, don't worry about it, and just go on with your life. Good luck dude.
2007-02-19 07:20:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Before you were a teenager, when you were younger... which sex did you have crushes on...or puppy love for?
I ask because, for a lot of people, they know ever since they were little tots which sex they fancy.
As for the porn, its all very erotic, and whether others will admit or not, even some people who claim they are straight can achieve an erection from watching gay/lesbian porn. So its not the best indication of your sexual identity, but if someone were to guess...they might say you are bisexual.
If you would like to probe further, you might want to see where you fall on the spectrum of the kinsey scale. http://members.tde.com/ben/kleingrid.html
Its not that hard to fill out...and it will help you figure for yourself if you are gay, straight, or bi.
Its a complicated subject. For example, some gay men might find themselves attracted to a really hot woman once in a while, but it doesn't mean at the same time that they would want to sleep with her. Some straight women might enjoy kissing each other at a club, but wouldn't enjoy sleeping with each other beyond that.
In some ways sexuality can be grouped together, and in other ways it can be quite unique for each person.
2007-02-19 14:46:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
First of all, this is not really serious. Relax.
Second, not everyone is 'gay' or 'straight'. Some people are attracted somewhat to both men and women. That doesn't mean they necessarily act on it.
Finally, I think its pretty normal to be interested in seeing naked men. I read some survey on a website where they asked males and females if they'd rather watch a member of the same sex or opposite sex masturbate. Almost half said same sex - and that was the 'preferred', so we can assume a lot _more_ then half have at least some interest in it.
Don't get too tied up about what porn turns you on. I think its pretty normal for both straight and gay and everything in between to get turned on by seeing naked people doing sexual things, period.
2007-02-19 14:33:38 · answer #3 · answered by kheserthorpe 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Most people of either sex feel attraction to members of the same sex when going through puberty and sometimes they act on it. It does not mean you are Gay or lesbian 7 times out of 10 it is pure curiosity. Most turn out to be heterosexual and others homosexual and the odd few have the best of both by being bi-sexual (attracted to both sexes). Whatever you turn out to be, be happy with yourself because there is no shame in being who you are.
2007-02-19 16:56:24 · answer #4 · answered by stargazer 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Could be bisexual, lot more bisexuals than all the gays and lesbians combined. Bigger field to play in. Could just be straight and enjoy watching men. Early to make any judgements on your sexuality, just wing it for a few years and see which way you lean, or if you lean both ways.
2007-02-19 20:03:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are just at that point of your life where you are questioning. As everyone questions their sexuality at some point in their life, I wouldn't worry about it. In time you will know or you might even be bisexual. The only way for you to know is to really evaluate on yourself and look inwards. Ask yourself questions like, what about the porn is turning you on? who do you want to have sex with? Personal questions about it, to make yourself figure it out. No one can tell you what your sexuality is and don't let anyone lead you towards their "side" Follow your instincts and listen to yourself. Good luck!
2007-02-19 14:50:35 · answer #6 · answered by Jyse 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I think sexuality is like sanity. No one is completely insane and completely sane doesn't exist either. Most people are either more gay or more straigt but a lot of people are in the middle. And a lot of them don't admit it because it's easier and more socially acceptible to be either straight or gay. Bisexuality exists. It's fairly natural I think.
2007-02-19 16:03:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
I'm going through the same thing. I'm probably gay. Whatever, I'm not stressing about it. Don't worry, sex is sex. When you fall in love with a guy, then you can probably be sure you're gay. If you fall in love with a girl, you're probably straight.
2007-02-19 15:50:13 · answer #8 · answered by Syck 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are human and probably bi now, you need a commited relationship so you can step outside of this self-inflicted confusion and work on something real like love, not sex. So look for the personality, friendship and respect and share good times and laugh.
2007-02-20 00:30:23 · answer #9 · answered by chad r 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can only answer that question. you either like puzzy or you like diks. ggooood luck
2007-02-19 14:35:31 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 3⤋