i get him stuff all the time..i mean i'm not superficial or anything saying that i want gifts all the time ..but its the thought.i think the last time he's bought me anything was like 8 months ago. i mean he asks if i want to go to the movies and i pay for myself and same goes for when we go out and eat.i mean i took us out to eat for Valentines Day !!! ME im the lady aren't you posed to wine and dine ME! on ValentinesDay. it's getting to the point were i just can't take it anymore ..help! please!
2007-02-19 05:12:21 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
TOTALY UNDERSTAND. YOUR THE LADY AND HE IS THE ONE TO WINE AND DINE YOU ... AND I KNOW THERE ARE TIMES THEY CANNT DO IT BECAUSE TGHERE ISNT ENOUGH $$$ BUT 8 MO AGO WAS THE LAST TIME HE GAVE YOU SOME THING??
SIT HIM DOWN, TALK TO HIM. TELL HIM WHAT YOU FEEL. BUT WAIT, YOU MEAN TO TELL ME HE TOOK YOU OUT BUT YOU GUYS WENT DUTCH??? YOU PAY YOUR WAY I PAY MY WAY??? ARE YOU SERIOUS??? OHHH NO .... YOU REALLY NEED TO TALK TO HIM, EITHER THAT OR JUST PLAIN DROP HIS BEHIND OUT TO THE DOOR.
PS: BEEN MARRIED 28 YRS THIS JULY, THERE HAS BEEN TIME WHEN THERE WASNT ENOUGH FOR US TO GO OUT, BUT MY HUSBAND WOULD TELL ME, PREPARE SOMETHING QUICK, I WILL BE BACK, HE WOULD BRING SODA, POPCORN AND 2 MOVIES, CUDDLE ON THE SOFA AND HAD A GREAT TIME. OTHER TIMES WEWOULD HAVE ENOUGH TO GO OUT AND HAVE A GREAT TIME. WE SHARE EVERYTHING. BUT WE ARE MARRIED.
2007-02-19 05:22:10 · answer #1 · answered by ââ¢Â¥*~áƦ~NYSunrise~áƦ~*ââ¢Â¥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's telling you that he does not choose something than you need to make him a hand-crafted present like a card or some thing that he does rejoice with. yet in case you have been relationship him for 2 years does not you recognize plenty approximately him, or a minimum of the flaws that he likes? i advise in case you fairly do love him? attempt to pay nearer interest to the little information he likes and notice what you are able to arise with. stable success!! and that i'm particular that something from the heart he gets exhilaration from if he fairly does love you.
2016-10-16 00:42:11 · answer #2 · answered by schwalm 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he is running low on money, or saving up for something really big. o.O' It also sounds like you have not addressed this issue to him. Being a couple, you two should try to work out the kinks and dents of the relationship, this being one of them. Find out what's going on at home or wherever he gets his money from (ie.job?), or whatever, and if the case is as you assume, be emotionally prepared to understand that his feelings might have changed.
2007-02-19 05:24:14 · answer #3 · answered by this_1ove_x3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some guys are just CHEAP. Find a guy who will wine and dine you.
You will get sick of this guy before long. Woman like to be pampered and made to feel special.
Show him this response.
2007-02-19 05:31:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A relationship should be 2 sided in all ways. He isn't putting in any effort. If he's broke he should at least try to cook you a meal or make you a card or do something nice for you.
2007-02-19 05:22:08 · answer #5 · answered by Jenny 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If a guy doesn't buy you any gifts for Christmas or Valentine's Day, then something is wrong.
2007-02-19 05:22:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
are u dating your boyfriend or u just lookin at his wallet.who ask u to bought him anything???
2007-02-19 05:32:03 · answer #7 · answered by yokey 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋