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Ok i have only 3 friends and I think thats too little. Plus i think that we're not hanging out a lot and i dont know why, but i think thats bad and its buging me. Please help, what should I do?? I have other friends like at dance, but we dont hang out out of dance. I dont think we are close enough to hang out out of dance. Those three friends are just in school. I need help!! Please some ideas and advice. Oh, and saying "just make new friends" doesnt help.

2007-02-19 04:53:32 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Friends

Do you think 3 good friends is too little?

2007-02-19 05:21:14 · update #1

4 answers

Nobody is really your friend basically call them associates! Get out there meet new associates and when the fit the criteria of being your friend then make them your friend but don't expect them to do what you want or thinking what a friend should be! You set the standard don't be a follower! Good Luck

2007-02-19 05:11:59 · answer #1 · answered by Tricee 3 · 0 0

Well, don't feel bad because you only have three good friends. As long as they're good friends, that's all you need. I don't have many best friends and I like it that way... I have other friends I'm not as close with to talk to also, like it seems you do also from dance. You shouldn't feel like you need more friends because other people do, because of peer pressure. Do what you think is right, not others. You know yourself better than anyone else.

Since you're not hanging out a lot, try and schedule something a lot in advance. Don't worry, people can get really busy at times and that doesn't mean they don't want to hang out with you... Everyone can be busy at times, don't take it personally.

Try doing something with those friends from dance. It doesn't hurt to ask them to do something right? It could even be all of you, or just you and one other girl/guy. You should ask them, they could feel the same way and want to do something. If they can't then no harm done. :)

I don't think you should abandon your old friends for other people unless they really do something to you intentionally but you could start hanging out with other people too. Just try not to block anyone out. They'll understand if you do things with other people.
If your friends still are too busy to hang out or whatever, tell them how you feel. Friends will understand and knowing how you feel will make them work harder to make things better between you again...

Well I hope I helped! Good luck! :)

P.S. Don't let peer pressure get to you, it's not worth it.

2007-02-19 05:13:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

I truthfully have by no ability had a boyfriend the two and that i'm only approximately 15. i've got self assurance an identical way as you because of the fact a super sort of my pals have boyfriends and every time I carry close out with them they create their boyfriends alongside. I hate seeing them make out, carry palms...and so on. in the adventure that your pals are your actual pals, they might have some by myself time with you devoid of their boyfriends. tell your pals the type you experience and in the event that they are definitely your pals they'll provide up with regardless of they are doing. the ingredient is to remember that all people will at last locate somebody that is top for them. in case you get a relationship in extreme college, there's a ninety 9% probability that in a while in existence it is going to interrupt up. people who've by no ability been in a relationship think of a relationship is going to cause them to so lots greater happier yet truthfully it makes them so lots greater unhappy and under stress. I plan to get a boyfriend while i'm older and probably greater smarter with the concepts. i myself do no longer prefer to wind up with a heartbreak.

2016-11-23 18:47:25 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0 0

ill be your friend!

2007-02-19 05:02:50 · answer #4 · answered by CarlosDeLargos 2 · 0 0

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