im just curious why do you call us loser just because we care about everything. i mean if we dont talk atleast we dont hurt your feelings by making your fun. i am very shy girl and i know i am loser you dont have to tell me but think about it if a person is fat and you call him fat ofcourse it will hurt his feelings this is how it hurts my feeling when someone call me loser and loner. atleast i have good grades, family and few freinds.
and excuse my english because i am new in america and im still learning.
2007-02-19 04:51:04 · 2 answers · asked by dzvina 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
oh and one more thing if you hate us tell me what makes you to hate us. i have been proposed by too many guys but when they find out that im shy they will start to make my fun! why?
2007-02-19 04:53:12 · update #1
I wouldn't worry about it. People like to pick on other people, it makes some people feel good to make others feel bad (sounds cliche, doesn't it?) so they grasp at anything...it happens to be your shyness they are picking on. Just remember how ridiculous this person must be to pick on you because you are shy...being shy or preferring privacy doesn't make you a loser...the values you hold are what makes you a loser, or a.....winner? The fact that you realize the importance of grades and family, and close friends means a lot, and can be real handy if you decide you don't want to be shy anymore...
2007-02-19 05:36:13 · answer #1 · answered by chavito 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm shy and alot of times I like to to be alone,doesn't make me a bad person.I've never been outgoing and I don't care to be.I like my privacy,but I still enjoy being around my kids and my family.You are not a loser,you have good grades,family,and some friends.Enjoy yourself and take care.
2007-02-19 13:07:17 · answer #2 · answered by Ms Lety 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋