How would you feel if your BF/ Husband asked you to have a threesome with another man?
Would you find that more appealing than it being 2 women and a man?
I know a lot of people think a man requesting a threesome is looking for an ok to cheat but in this scenario that cant be the case.
Nothing gay would happen between the 2 guys...... they both would just be doing the girl.
your thoughts????
2007-02-19 04:04:51 · 9 answers · asked by RedEye 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
This is not something I am considering.
I was just wondering if the thought of a threesome would bother the female if it were 2 guys rather than 2 girls.
2007-02-19 04:15:36 · update #1
Threesomes can be fun but the best ones (imnsho) are between 3 unaffiliated people...that way you avoid jealousies, insecurities, relationship issues, etc.
If a couple is VERY secure in their relationship then adding playmates to their sex life can be fun (either singles or couples or both).
A MFM or a FMF threesome can each be fun, but they are different (naturally). I've heard a guy tell another guy in a MFM "dude, you can touch me anywhere you want...but it better be for leverage" LOL
As with all sexual encounters (esp those including outsiders when a couple is involved) make sure all parties use protection.
2007-02-19 04:14:15 · answer #1 · answered by . 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I had this happen to me once before with an old boyfriend. He desperately wanted a threesome until I pointed out how he would like to see me with another guy. He backed off really quick! I dont believe that it is appropriate or right for me to have a threesome. However, that is a personal choice that you will have to make. Just dont push too hard for it bc u might find that that other person doesnt feel the same way about it as u do.
2007-02-19 05:27:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's going to wonder what is up.....she's going to think that you're either gay, or you're using it as a way to ease her in to more....like a 3some with a girl, or an open lifestyle.
Either way, I'd be careful to think this out before you proceed. If she isn't someone you care about, and don't see having a future with, go ahead and suggest it. I have never seen a relationship recover once it has gone down this path. You either stay in this kind of lifestyle or you back out and break up......there's no going back.
2007-02-19 04:16:32 · answer #3 · answered by salemgirl1972 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, no, no!!! I think the marriage bed is sacred, and there is no room there for another person. Why would you want your wife to have sex with another man? If it's ok for her to do it in front of you, does that mean it's ok for her to go to the bar and pick up a little hottie on the side if she wants? I really don't get why you would consider this!!!
2007-02-19 04:10:00 · answer #4 · answered by ladyscootr 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on what the guy looks like. LOL Honestly, I probably wouldn't be open to it either way. But, I would be less offended if it were a guy. I would think my husband wanted another woman other than me if he suggested it with a woman. But I wouldn't agree to it, I'm happy with what I have.
2007-02-19 04:09:55 · answer #5 · answered by Melissa R 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd do it if the other person involved was a complete stranger because if he/she is someone we know, I would be wondering the whole time if my man is interested in the other person. I would do it for fun and just once.
2007-02-19 05:25:28 · answer #6 · answered by chikis 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if he was Mr.Dreamy then why not...lol...But just to be honest, my hubby and I sometimes talk about it. Just for conversations sake. But defenitely it bother me...Specially the thought of him doing some other girl.
2007-02-19 04:32:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't share or like to be shared.
That's a major NO.
2007-02-19 04:09:44 · answer #8 · answered by Jenny 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
THAT IS SICK
2007-02-19 04:21:50 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋